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thank you Mr lahoretolondonwhateveryourtoryis! We needed this in Life1 :@:
Vulture women like you enjoy drama...
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the most uncivilized question can only come from you,
bravo dude!
well how do you know your wifey in londonium isn't just as hornayy and doing your neighbour or something?
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The starting sounded somewhat like the plot of Humsafar.....
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am I the only the one who feels sorry for LTL because you are in a lose lose situation buddy.
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I thought about it, could handle seeing her collapse emotionally? or if she remarried would I be able to handle myself? No I couldn't, I had some odd thoughts last night, I thought about my wife doing something rash to herself, I imagined she would kill herself when I broke the news, I imagined a jumble of scenarios and none ended well. I don't want to hurt her, but now I've made a commitment to this girl here in Moscow and the stress I've put on myself is incomprehensible.
Oh poor you. The stress...
The Russian girl will get over you. You do seem to feel for your wife. For the sake of your son, if not your wife, give your marriage another chance.
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the most uncivilized question can only come from you, lolz
bravo dude!
dude, i just asked what the OP asked, he's horny so wants to marry someone who can take care of him when he's away from his wife. now what will the wife do when she's away from him? play guli danda?
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Jub pyar mohabbat, wadey waeed sub begum ko bateery baghair ho gaeey tu now what are you afraid of?
Not that you care that she will be heart broken…u dont care about the commitment you gave to her…u dont care about the kid who was brought into the world by you.
go ahead … 
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I thought about it, could handle seeing her collapse emotionally? or if she remarried would I be able to handle myself? No I couldn't, I had some odd thoughts last night, I thought about my wife doing something rash to herself, I imagined she would kill herself when I broke the news, I imagined a jumble of scenarios and none ended well. I don't want to hurt her, but now I've made a commitment to this girl here in Moscow and the stress I've put on myself is incomprehensible.
What about the commitment you have made to your wife and son?
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LTL, it's easier to break something that you've only had for a some months.........as opposed to jeopardizing something that you've had for years and that will come at the expense of several lives. Yes, it's stressful....but weigh your pros and cons....before deciding that you can or cannot do something.
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youre so funny
lolzz Zz z
dude, i just asked what the OP asked, he's horny so wants to marry someone who can take care of him when he's away from his wife. now what will the wife do when she's away from him? play guli danda?
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am I the only the one who feels sorry for LTL because you are in a lose lose situation buddy.
I initially thought it would be a win win..... boy was I wrong.
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What about the commitment you have made to your wife and son?
What about it? ffs you people think I'm going to dump them off at the poor house and lock up wifey...
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What about it? ffs you people think I'm going to dump them off at the poor house and lock up wifey...
There is a lot more to a marriage and fatherhood than finances. They need your love as well.
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WHUT
please be serious i have a weak heart
I initially thought it would be a win win..... boy was I wrong.
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If you marry the Russian, your first wife, your son and probably your new wife will remain unsettled since you will still have to spend 6 months in Russia and 6 months in UK. Your first wife might ask for divorce, might kill herself and your son might be left without his mother and with a father whom he might not be willing to trust anymore.
If you don't marry the Russian, you save the life of your first wife, future of your son and future of the Russian, although you might think you will have to suffer in your 'loveless' marriage if you don't marry the Russian.
Now, the scenario is clear. Better to focus on your first wife and son and save all the lives. If you are unable to keep control of your biological needs, try to find a full time job in UK so that you don't have to live away from your wife. When you continue to live with your wife and try harder to make the marriage work for the sake of your son, things will be much better.
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LTL, it's easier to break something that you've only had for a some months.........as opposed to jeopardizing something that you've had for years and that will come at the expense of several lives. Yes, it's stressful....but weigh your pros and cons....before deciding that you can or cannot do something.
I see her at most once a day and at least once a week at work, she's the bloody receptionist at the office... It seems like I'm neck deep in ****.
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u r 23, there will b many women u will b attracted to, try to control your desires and focus on your wife, u can't marry every woman u see on a daily basis and exchange similar ideas with.
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I initially thought it would be a win win..... boy was I wrong.
As a wife and a mother, I will tell you that your wife and child will NEVER forgive you for this selfish act.
As a human, I understand that a life that you never choose for yourself is hard living. Everyone deserves a chance for happiness.
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I thought about it, could handle seeing her collapse emotionally? or if she remarried would I be able to handle myself? No I couldn't, I had some odd thoughts last night, I thought about my wife doing something rash to herself, I imagined she would kill herself when I broke the news, I imagined a jumble of scenarios and none ended well. I don't want to hurt her, but now I've made a commitment to this girl here in Moscow and the stress I've put on myself is incomprehensible.
You want your wife to be happy with your decision to remarry so that you carry no guilt. She won't be. More than that, she's likely to lose both love and respect for you since she'll see your actions as a repudiation of her love for you and your son.
You're welcome to marry again, after all Islam allows you four wives - but do it knowing what it will cost you. Is your own happiness more important that their love and the family you are together? Only you can answer that question.
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cmon man if you want to marry its ok.....
are you first man to have a second wife?
does islam forbid second marriage?
is it haram or makrooh?
I didnt read entire thread so if there is another twist in the story then please forgive me....