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I think you should pick someone nearer to your age - more compatiblity
As for the shelf thing then I suggest you go pak and marry some 12 year old - from a family. I know many girls who are willing to do this cos of the lovely passport.
You must have only the freshest produce...
Thanks for the tip PinkOrchids! Ahhh I love my British passport...
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^ well said chaibiskut.. I was thinking just that
The only girls who would marry you are probably ones forced by their parents ..
A man's prime is in his 20's so you're a bit past it
What took you so long anyway, have you had your cake, eaten it and now thinking of pleasing your parents?
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why do you want a girl around 20 anyway? am sure you both would have compatabilitiy issues given the age difference. It's better to pick someone near your age :)
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What if a 37 year old woman wanted to marry a gur who was 32.? Imagine antys gossip on that. hawww she was an evil demon who got her claws into him, she did sum black magic n trapped my innocent son.lol. But yes go for a 20 year old,just make sure she's chitti gori n has long black hair till her knees . Unless ud like hair till the ankles.
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Your red passport and money will definitely bag you a 20 year old girl.
Honestly speaking though, I don't think anyone in the West will marry you, unless she's some sort of gold-digger, or she just generally goes for older men (they are rare), or there is some sort of physical/mental issue.
And, really, I don't think you will be on the same wave-length as one another. Come on, think about it, she will be wanting to party, she won't want to be baking in the oven because her line of thinking will be that she is YOUNG and the world is her oyster, so she can rome around before thinking about kids. You, on the other hand, will want to have kids early because of your aged biological clock - this will be reason to cause a problem.
I don't want to sound mean, but I think you are being quite unrealistic.
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wud you like to have a vehicle of life where one set of wheels has a radius of 37 inches and the other one has 20 inches?** you know the end-result of such vehicle? *you will go ROUND N ROUND in an un-ending spin*. :D
if u want that...go ahead. but, remember, *life isn't a merry-go-round! *:D**
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^ well said chaibiskut.. I was thinking just that
The only girls who would marry you are probably ones forced by their parents ..
A man's prime is in his 20's so you're a bit past it
What took you so long anyway, have you had your cake, eaten it and now thinking of pleasing your parents?
I've never been in a relationship before. I am a shy guy.
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3 pages and best reply so far!
Well done KKF! You get two thumbs up for this analogy.:k::k:
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thank you ji 
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^ your analogy is severely flawed. As the same effect can be reached even if the age is off by a few years. e.g. 20 and 25.
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^ No, the vehicle won't be as unbalanced as it would be if the measurings read 20" and 37". ;)
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ok you may be shy.
but what about parents,guardians, community elders and the mosque rishta services didnt they help you find someone at your prime/peak?
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i agree with sorrow on this
sorry man it does not make sense at all
wife husband are two wheels of life or w/e is a philosophical notion you cannot relate to some physical/dimensional explanation.......
moreover the people like the sound of this analogy would cheer up and agree to it instantly lol no pls dont do that
wud you like to have a vehicle of life where one set of wheels has a radius of 37 inches and the other one has 20 inches?** you know the end-result of such vehicle? *you will go ROUND N ROUND in an un-ending spin*. :D
if u want that...go ahead. but, remember, *life isn't a merry-go-round! *:D**
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ok you may be shy.
but what about parents,guardians, community elders and the mosque rishta services didnt they help you find someone at your prime/peak?
To be honest I was still in Pakistan at the time and did not have a very good job. There were many girls I wanted to marry, but they did not want to marry me :(
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i agree with sorrow on this
sorry man it does not make sense at all
wife husband are two wheels of life or w/e is a philosophical notion you cannot relate to some physical/dimensional explanation.......
moreover the people like the sound of this analogy would cheer up and agree to it instantly lol no pls dont do that
Are you telling me that it is normal for a 37 year old to marry a 20 year old?
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so let me get this straight, corollary to your theory, the husband and wife should be same age, height width and depth etc. as well?? lol
QUOTE=Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta;8424976]wud you like to have a vehicle of life where one set of wheels has a radius of 37 inches and the other one has 20 inches?** you know the end-result of such vehicle? *you will go ROUND N ROUND in an un-ending spin*. :D
if u want that...go ahead. but, remember, *life isn't a merry-go-round! *:D**
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^ your analogy is severely flawed. As the same effect can be reached even if the age is off by a few years. e.g. 20 and 25.
don't worry, i can understand ur limitation...thank you :)
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Looks like satire is completely lost on the OP. Disappointing, because I was expecting a more entertaining thread :P
Maybe we should give the guy a break. It's completely innocent and rather romantic that he wants to have sex with someone who was a newborn when he was almost 20 yrs old. Especially since he's so 'shy and inexperienced.'
Aww.
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..and wondering what the average age of Desi guys to get married is? Im 37 and single... can I still find a nice young 20 year old girl to marry?
hahahhaha...you are an uncle.
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hahahhaha...you are an uncle.
You are not an uncle until u hit 40