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Why do girls start getting so offended whenever I say i want to marry a much younger girl?? Why does it tick them off so much?
Zareen and Reha?
I'm not offended...why would I be? I don't have to marry you.
We're trying to tell you that you need to marry for fertility rather than age right now. So don't worry about how old she is...can she bear healthy children?
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Do you mean she will not be as fertile or not as beautiful if she is older?
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Redvelvet- I think the main point may actually be less emotional baggage. I find some older women actually hotter.
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Redvelvet- I think the main point may actually be less emotional baggage. I find some older women actually hotter.
That isn't always true.
Have you read the threads here in Life1 EVER? The amount of love triangles we've seen?
Exactly how many of them have been started by older women? Barely any. They're ALL younger girls.
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Redvelvet- I think the main point may actually be less emotional baggage. I find some older women actually hotter.
Sorrow, there are younger girls who have done everything as early as highschool.....and there are older girls in their late 20s/early 30s that have less baggage. Younger doesn't always mean purer or less experienced.
It's just something to consider. In the end, as I said before, you have the right to your preferences.
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you wanting a 20 yr old for a wife and applying the whole "expiry date" analogy to women explains why you're not married at the sad age of 37.
nuff said.
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..and wondering what the average age of Desi guys to get married is? Im 37 and single... can I still find a nice young 20 year old girl to marry?
I think its definitely late 20s-early 30s. Nothing wrong with being single at 37, hopefully you have figured things out. I'm sure that you can find a nice 20 year old girl to marry, pretty much anywhere (North America, Europe, Pakistan). Definitely pay special consideration to the things that you value, and give her a break, just think of yourself back in the day.
All the best.
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That isn't always true.
Have you read the threads here in Life1 EVER? The amount of love triangles we've seen?
Exactly how many of them have been started by older women? Barely any. They're ALL younger girls.
I see your point. You don't want them to be in the experimental phase when you marry them.
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you wanting a 20 yr old for a wife and applying the whole "expiry date" analogy to women explains why you're not married at the sad age of 37.nuff said.
Pretty cool analogy no? Ok fine just replace "expiry date" with "a woman with more years left to conceive" ie more fertile. If you want to be politically correct ms orchid
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And incase you guys hvent noticed, I am quite new toThis forum. But you guys are great. Especially redvelvet.Very helpful.
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I see your point. You don't want them to be in the experimental phase when you marry them.
The thing is Sorrow...something you might not have thought about:
Not many 20 year old girls willingly fall in love with 37 year old men. Let's face it...it does not happen often enough to be considered normal. Which means they will marry you out of a necessity of some sort...parental pressure...emotional blackmail...a failed romance that left them bitter and resolved to forget so they marry the first man that comes into sight...you.
If you think older women have baggage...you have no idea what baggage truly is. Some older women might have had a dalliance here or there...but they are mature and emotionally stable. Its usually a distant past. They're much more confident and have a steadier head on their shoulders.
Its not say a match like you want doesn't happen...but I don't know of many happy matches.
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Why would any 20 year old want to marry someone nearly double their age?
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Do you always pick up the first product on the shelf or sometimes stick your hand into the back to get the one with the longest expiry date ;)
what if you expired before her?
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Do you always pick up the first product on the shelf or sometimes stick your hand into the back to get the one with the longest expiry date ;)
sure, you are 37 year old and closer to the death than a 28 year old girl. :).
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Try an anti-lice shampoo to stop that head scratching :p
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lol @ topic
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u might ‘want’ to marry a 20 yr old but will u be able to keep up with her 
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LMAO:biggthumb:
I think you should pick someone nearer to your age - more compatiblity
As for the shelf thing then I suggest you go pak and marry some 12 year old - from a family. I know many girls who are willing to do this cos of the lovely passport.
You must have only the freshest produce...
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Sure you can get a 20 year old. (Though I agree with Reha and think you should go younger, since fertility generally peaks at 24 in women).
Lots of people here are asking you why you want a 20 year old, but to assess whether you can, we'll need to know what you're bringing to the table. Remember, your competition is the under 30, robust male population who is going to cock-block you and laugh while they're doing it. Factors such as how much you earn, where you went to school, what you look like, whether you have a paunch, your sexual history, if there's still hair on that head you're scratching, and your umbilical cord status vis-a-vis your mother determine how much of an edge you have. Extra credit if you can furnish medical proof of your sperm motility and count. Only with a better picture can we evaluate your chances of bagging a 20 year old uterus.
ps. Keep in mind though, the way things are going to hell in the End Times, girls are unbelievably arrogant nowadays. If you're a retinal surgeon who looks like George Clooney with a personality like Jon Stewart to boot, you might still get called "pedophile uncle" by that 20 year old nymphette. Worse still, she'll marry you and call out "Daddy" in bed (then again you may just enjoy that). Good luck and don't lose hope, because for every dilemma like this, there's an obliging Arab Sheikh somewhere.