Scratching my head..

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..and wondering what the average age of Desi guys to get married is? Im 37 and single… can I still find a nice young 20 year old girl to marry?

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I recall reading an article few months ago that detailed avg age of marriage across the world. If i remember correctly, I think in pk for males its approx 28-29 .... dont know about desis living outside of pk.

of course you can.

but ... isn't 20 a bit old??

avg age of puberty in galz is approx 10-11yo. you really should go for that freshly fertile crop.

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Honestly ul find someone 28 plus

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Sorry to burst your bubble but maira zameer keh raha hai k I should tell u the reality. You will not be able to find 20 year old girl.

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^ oh and reason is k kabhi koi lerkee 18 saal sai baree hoie hai ullu?

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You are above average :)

The average age is around 30 i think.

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Hmm realistically you may get a girl who's 34 - I'm in my late 20s and 37 is not the age I look for.

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lol…ise kahte haiN “kachchii kali kachnaar kii”…magar, 12-13 qwaali jawaan ho ke hubby ko ABBU na kahne lage lol hehe :cb:

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you can’t be serious!

and if you are, pls get a life already! :bummer:

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nah mate im 23 and no way would i go for anyone over 31

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whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ..old is gold …:cb:

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I am not saying you should - But I think you can :)

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Why do girls start getting so offended whenever I say i want to marry a much younger girl?? Why does it tick them off so much?

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I think its possible...you need to look in the right places though. You have to find someone that desperate but it can definitely happen.

Also, I should ask why you're looking for a 20 year old when you can easily marry much younger with parental permission if you're in the states. If you're 37, she should at least be 15. Why settle for immaturity at 20 when you can have super duper fertility at 15? The reality is, you need to have kids ASAP if you want to be around for their high school graduations.

Dont underestimate yourself buddy...

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I havent read one post here which reflects that really.

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any specific reason you want to marry 20 years old girl?

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Zareen and Reha?

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they arent offended though, its more like ....are you serious?

Anyway.

Why a young 20 year old?

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I'm not ticked off, but I am curious. You have the right to your preferences...you can even marry four 20-year-olds. But what are your reasons?

Is it because a considerably younger girl will be more attractive? Is it because you want someone more fertile? Is it because you think that a younger girl won't have as much emotional baggage from past relationships.....that she'd be more "pure"??? Is it because you think that they're easier to mold or that they adjust better than older women? Is it because that youtfhulness keeps things more alive in a marriage? Do you think that girls that age are more "youthful" or have a naievte or innocence that you find charming? I'm not mocking you.....some people do find such qualities attractive. Is it all of the above?

Also, I know that some girls prefer to marry a guy who is much older than them....that's what they are attracted to. Now in the case of an arranged marriage.........what if your young wife is secretly attracted to guys closer to her age? Have you thought of that possibility and would it bother you?

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Do you always pick up the first product on the shelf or sometimes stick your hand into the back to get the one with the longest expiry date ;)