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What I always find more surprising is why these younger women agree to marry men who are so much older and / or uglier than them. I'm thinking money and financial / job security or wealthier families attract them?
so you would go for a poor, without job, hobo guy??
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As enraging and perhaps true to self it may sound. (entitled for everything I say or do, I am) But thats just because, you don’t have a point. Princess. 
Lettuce be real. A constant yapping spree thats been done to death is all it comes across, circulating round and round and in one dumb direction. No motives, no goals, no determination to improve on past failures, needless to analyze self yet all the time to diss the opposite. Complaining, the massive negativity that lingers with every post. Being the delusional demanding for a fix while being clearly/admissively messed up yourself, the gradually stretching to a point of no return type.
Begs me a question. Doesn’t the legendary PCG look up to her dad for anything? How about you consider his advice on what it takes to score someone as good (presumably) as he may’ve been himself?
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why do you write like that?
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The heights of someones desperation, makes people do awkward things. Bet you didn't know that.
Back to the topic. Miss. Living in a pigeon hole cum living room. Was the king a newly convert prior the queen decided to call it a day?
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i have no idea what you're saying.
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I don't blame you. Sau anaaroun main eik bimaar honaay ki pesh'guwee bahut pehlay sey jo hou chuki thi. :D
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even if the guy said that she's "too old for him"- that's still wrong. First off, you don't say that. Come up with another reason for rejection.... like the guy could have said he's immature compared to her, has different goals, etc.
I just think it's wrong when girls who are around the same age, look younger, and don't have an overly mature or domineering personality are being rejected because they are "too old."
I feel like it's now becoming a competition amongst guys- who has the youngest wife.
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I am serious. Its not that guys have more sexual appetiter than girls, they justhave it over a longer period of time.
why does everything about men relate back to sex.... this coversation had nothing to do with it
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why does everything about men relate back to sex.... this coversation had nothing to do with it
What can we do? We like sex, and women lie.
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^ noone is lying about anything
i just find it odd that it needs to be brought up in every conversation... why?
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pcg- maybe for the future rishtas you can ask your parents to ask the guy's side for a simple "no" if he's not interested and not let them give the reason why.. then you wouldn't have to wonder about these things and be upset or potentially get your feelings hurt
it won't matter in the end what that guy's/family's specific reason was since everyone has their own personal preferences (even if their preferences are stupid :p)
don't worry- a good guy is out there for you :)
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Did you follow the whole conversation Sadz? I was telling PCG why most guys think that girl of their own age is too old for them. I was answering her question and that is it.
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^ ive been following it yes..
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I freaking love you PCG 
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I don't get why we're talking about sex. It's not like you stop ovulating and lose your sex drive at 29.
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29 makes people wonder why you're not married already
29 makes people think there must be something wrong with you
29 oozes with desperation
A guy the same age as you can say you're too old for him (aka not his type) but another could also say that you're just what he's looking for.
So keep trying and don't give up
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I don't get why we're talking about sex. It's not like you stop ovulating and lose your sex drive at 29.
infact its the opposite...
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would you like someone reconsider you after rejecting on the basis of your age? PCG: if you are living your life with so called standard (“fobi”, “pig”, “accent”) which are quite childish and superficial. You should not compromise on your principals/rules but they must be reasonable. 
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29 makes people wonder why you're not married already 29 makes people think there must be something wrong with you 29 oozes with desperation
A guy the same age as you can say you're too old for him (aka not his type) but another could also say that you're just what he's looking for. So keep trying and don't give up
You know after my steller beat down of your archaic arguments (read: Aunty-ish) in a prior thread, you sure are bitter aren't you?
