Re: Salaam need advice about moving back to pakistan
Reha, I don’t think he’s being a pessimist or a nashukra. He just doesn’t feel at home in the US and I can relate to these feelings. People who are born and bred in the US or have their entire khandaan with them are obviously gonna feel at home but they need to put themselves in his shoes. Forget Pakistan, would they even move to the EU, leaving behind their friends and family? Probably not. They’re content where they are but not everyone else is. I am an EU citizen so Alhumdulillah I can avail of opportunities all across the EU but I am still quite serious about moving out of the EU altogether. If it’s a mistake, so be it. Let me make my own mistakes and learn my own lessons. It’s good to step outside of your comfort zone and do a bit of exploring. And I’d rather travel and explore when I’m young as opposed to when I have a family and a million responsibilities. Similarly, homesick needs to find a place to settle down, whether it’s Pak or KSA or back to the US, before his kids grow up and there are other complications.