Rukhsati Aur Rona Dhona

[Amna_J]

@Maham S

woho i dont know what weddings you have been attending where people fake their emotions…but i think its very natural for the bride and her family to cry. Heck, i cried on my bhabi’s ruksati :halo: so than people like you must be thinking gosh, she is one hell of an actress lol.

Yes, its a happy day but sad as well because you are leaving your home where most spent all their lifes so far so that a BIG change and than most importantly all know that life after marriages changes alot and you can’t have a carefree atitude like you had before and there will be so many responsibilities and all that. And who knows how this new family and the husband turns out…so its all at the back of your mind. Not to forget that you no more are going to be living with your family and trust me for some its a big deal.

oh yes it is…its natural to cry, maybe not on the wedding day but after wards..when it hits u that u have left that home…ur parents etc etc.

[_Iraj]

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mjay tu aaj bhaghair rukhsati k roona aa rahja hey

[hussain87]

@_Iraj

mjay tu aaj bhaghair rukhsati k roona aa rahja hey

ghar sai waqt anai sai pehlai hi dhakka dai kar nikaal rahai hain kiya:hehe:…

[SHANAYLE]

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its natural.main tou jab bhe,babul ki duayen leti jaa.ja tujhko sukhi sansaar milay sun loon ya movie main scene rukhsati ka ho tou rona aa jata hai:smack:,apni rukhsati par kia hoga?nahi pata:teary2:

[samraali22]

every time my friend got married i cried even if its in a church my sis got married n i was crying like a mad person i saw the movie n im terrified but on my own rusksati i was just numb i culdnt cry i culdnt even react that was just strange:halo:

[_Iraj]

@hussain87

ghar sai waqt anai sai pehlai hi dhakka dai kar nikaal rahai hain kiya:hehe:…

buss aaj dil bhut udas hey

[hussain87]

kis sai …rukhsati sai...

[_Iraj]

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apnay aap say - her cheez say - her baat say - her jagga say ::(

[Maham]

@Spock

maham, bhabbhi is ur bro’s wifey, why would u cry on her rukhsati??

cuz i am very sensitive :(…when the bride and groom got up from stage to leave her dadu came to my mom and said “is ka khayal rakhna…” and those words just made me cry so much. The whole thing about giving away your daughters in marriage to a new family is not easy and you dont know whats in store for her and you. So its a tricky situation :(. I remember i cried so much that even her sister and brothers who were crying stopped and her sister started laughing that why are you crying lol…but i was miserable

I know i am going to faint on my ruksati for sure!!!

[Maham]

nd yes girls dont cry these days...they r rather exited to leave their parents house... i agree with u Kali Bili...crying is just a formality now....if u dont ppl will make a fuss out of it! however there r still sum bhegi bili bakrian whtever u call them....who cry like anything when they leave their parents house and suddenly once they r in the car with their new relatives they r all smiling and laughing.....

woho chamchi you really need to respect people....dont stereotype!

[citrine]

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great !! yeah....u call me a chamci and then tells me to to respect ppl......haah!

[Maham]

nowadays if brides (many of them) cry they cry for show....if they dont the elders will think it's bad. :s...silly i think!

it's ridiculous to cry if you are going to move only 1 hr away from ur parents house lol...it's not like you wont see them again. I can understand if the bride is moving out of the country.

woho...so only girls who are moving out of country can cry! thats some weird theory of yrs....i dont know about everyone but most girls are quite close with their family and its hard to leave them for a new home, new family....yes its nt like they wont meet or talk but things r never the same.

[Maham]

@cricketplaya

I pray that I don’t cry when my sister leaves. (when will this happen!!!)

I’ve seen brothers cry a lot especially older bros. WHY

:halo::halo::halo: wl ask you after your sister’s marriage

[Maham]

@citrine

great !! yeah…u call me a chamci and then tells me to to respect ppl…haah!

but thats my pet name for you…not meant to be offensive .

[citrine]

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ahan aise kaho na

[cricketplaya]

ahan aise kaho na

aap jaldi gussa karti hn..

[citrine]

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aper to nai kya na abhi tak!

[desigirl786]

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I don't think most women fake or act these are natural emotions that come out..what's the need to put on a show for others?

I know when I leave I will definitely cry even though I am only going like 10 minutes from my parents but still its going to be a major change in my life..just thinking about it makes me very sad...

Then I think about the guy I am going to be spending the rest of my life with InshaAllah and I feel much much better ;-)

[pinks]

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Brides who cry (genuinely thankyouvermuch ) at time of the rukhsati aren’t denying that yes, this is a happy occasion, but its the transition that hurts the most for an average of 20+ years your mum/ dad / siblings have been your rock, they are the ones that brought you up, prayed for you with more sincerity then anyone else has, shared your happiness with a true heart, felt pain when you were in pain, and the list goes on! its the fact that often girls have to leave all that behind that is the cause of the bitter-sweet emotions! particularly if they have to move oversease Seeing them in person once or twice a year is not good enough I mean for a person like me, the first person i HAVE to talk to when i get home is my Mum, letting go of this can be a lot for some of us

[Sara516]

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LOL the whole time i was thinking.. Ok i have to cry else it will look bad. But then when i was hugging everybody goodbye, my mom started crying, and well just hearing her made me cry naturally..i didnt' have to force it or fake it. Before i got married i thought the same thing, why cry ur not going far, its a happy occasion etc...but then i realized it's jsut a thing of being in the moment, u can't really judge someone for crying or not crying.