Rukhsati Aur Rona Dhona

[X2]

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all that rona dhona is just for show, i bet all the ladies give high fives as soon as they are out of ppls sights :D

[NaMaan]

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^^ I think so too … and must be congratulating each other … ka aik orr mughaa kabo ma aa giya

[X2]

@pinks

Brides who cry (genuinely thankyouvermuch ) at time of the rukhsati aren’t denying that yes, this is a happy occasion, but its the transition that hurts the most for an average of 20+ years your mum/ dad / siblings have been your rock, they are the ones that brought you up, prayed for you with more sincerity then anyone else has, shared your happiness with a true heart, felt pain when you were in pain, and the list goes on! its the fact that often girls have to leave all that behind that is the cause of the bitter-sweet emotions! particularly if they have to move oversease Seeing them in person once or twice a year is not good enough I mean for a person like me, the first person i HAVE to talk to when i get home is my Mum, letting go of this can be a lot for some of us

but why do undergrad boys studying away from family dont cry like that when they are at the airpoert back for another school year.?

admit it, u girlies just like to create a scene

[pinks]

@X2

but why do undergrad boys studying away from family dont cry like that when they are at the airpoert back for another school year.?

admit it, u girlies just like to create a scene

we do not, Allah ne hame naram dil banaya hai, hence the tears

and I wouldn’t want to cry if I had a choise, but I have none

[zobia]

@pinks

we do not, Allah ne hame naram dil banaya hai, hence the tears

and I wouldn’t want to cry if I had a choise, but I have none

there is nothing bad in crying

[NaMaan]

@X2

but why do undergrad boys studying away from family dont cry like that when they are at the airpoert back for another school year.?

admit it, u girlies just like to create a scene

X2 has a point here. Its really not easy for guys to left their families and come all the way here for studies. On the contrary we try to defuse the situation, so that mom doesn’t start crying

We have a heart too

[Aliyish]

@NaMaan

We have a heart too

sometimes taken and often broken

[pinks]

@Aliyish

sometimes taken and often broken

there there

[Amour]

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I think it all depends how close bond you have within your family, for me its natural and i did cry on my sisters rukhsati.

[Maham]

@X2

but why do undergrad boys studying away from family dont cry like that when they are at the airpoert back for another school year.?

admit it, u girlies just like to create a scene

:halo: maybe cuz the girls are more sensitive and actually have a heart

[hussain87]

@Maham S

:halo: maybe cuz the girls are more sensitive and actually have a heart

yeah ur rite… gals are weak:chai: …

[Let_Uz_Chat]

@X2

all that rona dhona is just for show, i bet all the ladies give high fives as soon as they are out of ppls sights

[S02]

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My dad hates all the drama of ruksatis and all the unnecessarily sad songs. He understands that people are sometimes upset, and that the bride is, but the tradition of sobbing is disturbing to him.

I was all smiles :D

[Maham]

@hussain87

yeah ur rite… gals are weak:chai: …

Ouch…maybe yours just said that 2 make you feel better

[citrine]

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yea girls r weak..islie larkon keh jhanse me ajati hain...well said!

[automne77]

@#let uz chat#

In our part of the green, majority of times there is crying at the rukhsati stage. Some ladies really add fuel to fire and make the Bride and her Mother cry more and more. I have seen one wedding where the bride was given a quiet send off i.e. no rona dhona but that’s like once in a blue moon.

What about you guys, how does it go in your familes/area?

I was pretty adamant with my family members that I do not want the crying send off, we were about to start a new life and I wanted to do that with smiles and duaas. And yeah I’ve seen women add fuel to the fire as well, and also ppl who are at the wedding that don’t know the bride well waiting in line to hug her and cry (weird) anyhow we had my rukhsati from home, the family was a bit teary eyed but everything was personal just us family members. And the bright side is that in my wedding video, no crying just smiles… alhamdulillah

[funky_chicken]

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i cried on my sisters wedding but i was only young and didnt know wtf was goin on. ma dad reminds me when i cried but i just say 'they were tears of joy.'
on my cousins wedding 2 - 3 years ago i missed her ruksati cos i was having make up problems and the next thing i know is my little cousin, brides bro, comes running into the room for a fan saying 'dads fainted' i ran out and saw my dad trying to wake him up and give him water.
i think the whole idea of his daughter leaving was to much of an impact for him to take and he just ended up fainting.

i dont really see the point in crying, although it is likely i'll probably ball my eyes out, cos after marriage the girl is at the parents house 24/7 anyway so its like she never left.

[Numb]

@Maham S

woho i dont know what weddings you have been attending where people fake their emotions…but i think its very natural for the bride and her family to cry. Heck, i cried on my bhabi’s ruksati :halo: so than people like you must be thinking gosh, she is one hell of an actress lol.

Yes, its a happy day but sad as well because you are leaving your home where most spent all their lifes so far so that a BIG change and than most importantly all know that life after marriages changes alot and you can’t have a carefree atitude like you had before and there will be so many responsibilities and all that. And who knows how this new family and the husband turns out…so its all at the back of your mind. Not to forget that you no more are going to be living with your family and trust me for some its a big deal.

Achaa, to iska matlab hai ke Orat aapne ghar ponchne se pehle hi sab aansoon ro le ?

[Maham]

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^ Huh?