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kids ruining photos on stage..always happen.and that 1 little girl/boy from the guy's family who sticks to the bride from the moment he/she sees the bride.ends up even in the rukhsati car...it's ok if the kid is cute.but ugly cranky chipko kids...are a no-no-no!
now that's mean. i understand what you mean but you shouldnt call a kid 'ugly'. that's not a nice thing to say at all
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awwwww…I hope no one ever invites you to their weddings…u know to save you from looking at “ugly” kids 
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I can't believe people can be.....so.....wow.
Alhumdulillah my wedding was fine, no major problems during the ceremonies. However, right before the baraat, my mother and phupho got into a huge fight. She hated that my mom was giving my in-laws gifts (you know, the gold and karas and sarees and all that stuff that's given to the groom/his parents/siblings/siblings-in-law)....now I know everyone's feelings on it, but that's not really the point here.....my aunt wouldn't shut up about it, she kept going on and on, and even tried to involve others in the fight too...I got upset and said something and she dismissed it as "uss ko bhook lagi hai uss ki baat mat sun (she's just hungry, don't listen to her)" *
Fortunately nothing crazy happened at the wedding itself. This was all beforehand... by the rukhsati everyone was hugging each other.
At another wedding (In Pakistan), they served shorba wala chicken....and plates. that didn't make any sense to me. :( and a fight broke out cz one girl kept throwing the bones right on the floor and someone chastised her and it turned into a big phadda (not a violent one...just one of those family politics thingy)
another wedding last year, we all got in line for the food....and a buncha girls from the bride's side just cut in front of everyone. of course no one said anything to them but we griped about it on our own. And there was this annoying aunty who was like literally breathing down my neck. and I'm guilty of "wasting" food but in my defense.....I was sitting wiht some other people and having so much fun chatting with them that I couldn't finish everything and got full very quickly!
oh and there were two weddings where a few guests and I crashed the wedding next door. but those wedding ppl were nice and didn't kick us out, they welcomed us..lol.*
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I wouldn't welcome wedding crashers! They would wish that they didn't
I'm scared of being a bridezilla.. somebody stop me Q_Q
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Welll....their wedding was loud. Lots of music, and everyone was dancing.
it's not like we ate their food.....we just danced. lol
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I don’t know know it’s funy or rude or wht, but it was true love all I can say, my father works in AWT (Pakistan ) he was posted in blue lagoon hotel for a while, n daily they have almost 10 weddings, on my way back to home from uni, I always used to go there n see brides and decor and everything .
So 1 day I went into father’s office n saw a young guy crying there with tears like a baby, I sat there silently n started observing wht is happening after 10 mins father’s peon came n told my father rukhsati is happening so father took tht guy wth him n stand outside the hall, the guy was crying like hell, I was confused.
My father came back n thn I asked him wht was happenning, he told me, security guards called me in parking when I went there three boys were beating this guy, I asked them n they told its our sister wedding n he is her x boy friend n came here to ruin her wedding, the guy said no I just wanted to see her as bride I will not do anything to humiliate her, my father assured the bride’s brothers tht nothing will happen leave this guy I take the responsibility , n baba also assured tht guy tht he will show him the bride, thts y he was sitting in the office n waiting for rukhsati so tht he can see her.
The guy told my tht they were class fellows n wanted to marry each other he sent his mother twice for proposal but they rejected because of family background he was not as rich as the girl’s side, so the parted their ways.
A mutual friend told him tht the girl is getting married here, he just came to see he just wanted to see her as bride n thn he wanted to leave from there but was caught .
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^ok thats just too filmy and weird ..
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My cousin got married last year. His immediate family were on stage and us first cousins were standing behind him. This distant relative decided she was the groom's mother and refused to get up. The groom's mother stood for a good 20-30 minutes whilst the rest of her family members sat and this stupid girl had no sense to get up and give the seat to the mother. Personally I found that quite rude. His mother was too polite to say something.
Another wedding I attended the bride literally started shouting at her mother because " she was being too nice to her in laws". This wasn't the actual wedding day, it was the dholki and the poor parents in law just left the room. Honestly I wished someone had given her a few slaps across the face. Her grandparents travelled all the way from Pak for her wedding and she was being so stupid. On a different day this girl was started swearing at her mum because of something that went wrong. I can't even remember what it was exactly but that girl needs some sense knocked into her. She really put me off and I didn't attend the rest of the days.
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when people ask to window or divorced lady to not to do any rasam. or insult then if they want to join any rasam of bride or groom
I experienced this.! I was eating and felt someones had on the back of my chair, and looked up everyone was surrounding the table i just about got up and the woman holding my chair grabbed it and sat down.! I felt the hall decor etc was a waste.! Centre pieces and everything were taken off for the countless rounds off food.!
And the money thing theycall it 'nendrah' i think i mean wen my brother was born (only boy after 6girls) my dad made a note of everything everyone gave as its just a way to make sure if someone gives u a gift we guve something equally or more in return but ive never seen it at our weddings only at mirpuri ones and its quiet odd seeing it out in the open lol.! The mo ey goes to the bride/grooms parents apparantly not the bride and groom
^ I've been to a mirpur wedding and I think the general idea is that you have to wait behind the person eating to be next to eat. It's really awful and uncomfortable. I'm such a slow eater and you have to literally wolf your food down because someone is stood behind you, watching!
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In Pakistan I have been to 1 wedding from Bride’s side … its was a wallima function …
they invite guy’s side 1st to have their food … I guess there was shortage of it … that Girl’s guests didn’t get even a glass of water
Poor Bride was crying so badly 
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what are mirpur weddings and why have they got such a reputation (I can't figure out if it's a good or bad one....)
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-husband's cousins laughing at the compliments my friends were making about my husband
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At a family member's wedding, one aunty put food in her plate but continued standing there right in front of the food table eating and then topped up her plate.
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At my friend's wedding (Hindu), my friend's hubby's grandmother walked up to my friend's sister, pinched her stomach through her sari and said "You'd be a lot prettier if you didn't have this". That was appalling, I didn't see it happen but when her sister told us, she was very upset for the rest of the day but obviously couldn't say anything. I told my sister if it ever happens to her, she has my full blessing to tell said aunty off. I don't know why aunties (related or not) think they have a full licence to say and do whatever.
At my cousin's wedding, the people from the guy's side were VERY pushy, not all of them, but a lot of their extended family. So when we were dancing one of the uncles kept grabbing my sister's arm to get her away so he could shove his son in the middle to dance. She pushed her arm back, and turned around and gave him the meanest cut eye ever and he stopped. I'm surprised she didn't clock him one because if someone I didn't know grabbed my arm and tried to pull me away, he'd be regretting it for the rest of his life.
At the same wedding, when they were serving food, they called the groom's side first but my mom's cousin and her family went up and got food with them, ate quickly and then left.
That's about all I can rememeber that I remembered.
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on my cousins wedding, our other cousin, gave her a envelope with 200 ruppees in it. IN ENGLAND.
200 rupees= around £1.
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At my brother’s wedding the maulvi gave a speech about homosexuality and AIDS 
It was so bizarre and embarrassing..
Lesson learned - find out what the maulvi is going to talk about on your big day
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At my Brothers mehndi, half way through the night someone stole the money that the guests gave the couple during the mehndi rasam. It was around Rs 15,000 
we’d promised our kaam valay they would get the money, poor things were hardly left with anything.
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at my friends wedding, a huge part of her fathers side of the family didnt show up after RSVP'ing that they were attending - it was a small wedding and you could see 10 empty chairs just on the womens side not to mention $70 per plate x 10 mia guests....adds up - embarrassment and mone wise.
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people can get very rude during dood-pilai.. I've seen the bride's sister throw the money back at the groom's side because she wasn't happy with the amount.