Oh so it was this that was making her grumpy ... it was all my mistake ... My sisters do respect me ... but they get a bit silly ... they have completely ignored the notion of my wife being in a position that demands their respect. Having said that ... they do consider her better than the bhabi.
It's like when friends take the mic out of each other that is the sort of attitude but I admit if my wife doesn't like it then I need to intervene.
I'll think of a possible way forward .... somehow you women need to get on with each other without getting on each other's back and give me a bit of peace in the process ...
i don't want to go and see them every week. you can go if you want but i don't think i should go there before 4 or 5 weeks.