rude nands

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@Wane, sochna parhta he .. planning toh as such nahi hey, sabh dekha dikhaya kaam hey

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it takes 2 to clap.

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I can clap by myself. :D

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Some wise woman once said.........Nand is gand.......seems that its a true proverb...

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i'm not a hijra and i don't do clapping.

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but you totally understand what I mean.

:chai:

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my nands are way younger than me so there is no comparison to start with…but i never say anything out of place and that’s with most of the women i meet/know.

unless they’re close friends or my sisters i don’t even have conversations with them.

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you should not expect anything positive buddy. or they wouldnt have cut off with the older bhabi. do and keep doing your best anyway.

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of course. everyone think the same. :chai:

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Ignore, smile and nod.

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Attack of the nand! :)

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Hareem the fact that u can even openly say this in front of ur husband…count ur self lucky :hugz:

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I see a condescending tone here and it probably will cause more harm than anything. I can bet the nand thinks that you are probably a rude person and I don't know her relationship with her brother, but many times the family is already reeling with the fact that their son / brother is gone and bhabis shouldn't do sonay pay suhaga.

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guys will always come in such threads from a very different perspective i.e. defensive mode because it reminds them automatically of their own wives' nands. So Hareem, just dont listen to them. We understand how BAD it feels, to be insulted by inlaws. If you ask them (the husbands) they would have very rare stories to tell in this respect. they themselves are habitual of this "so out of the world respectful treatment" but they wont mind if even a shred of it is not given to their wives. Sadly.

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^ so none of you is a Nand :hehe:

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From what I have seen and if I put myself in that situation, guys would rather be out of this bs family politics if you know what I mean.

But oops I forgot, you are not a man so have fun making a mountain of a molehill! :smiley:

I don’t even get what is the big problem there since the OP and others in the thread obviously live separately and husbands can’t really be jerks to their wives here even if it because they are afraid of what the law would do to them.

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all of us are. and I didnt say nands are bad. Insult from Inlaws hurt. Obviously if a bhabi is rude it feels equally hurt, doesnt it?

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Peace All ...

Oh so it was this that was making her grumpy ... it was all my mistake ... My sisters do respect me ... but they get a bit silly ... they have completely ignored the notion of my wife being in a position that demands their respect. Having said that ... they do consider her better than the bhabi.

It's like when friends take the mic out of each other that is the sort of attitude but I admit if my wife doesn't like it then I need to intervene.

I'll think of a possible way forward .... somehow you women need to get on with each other without getting on each other's back and give me a bit of peace in the process ...

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So true. Count your blessings Hareem. There are so many women out there with not so much support from their husbands and also they live with their in-laws and thus more trouble and more problems.

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no it's not that. i'm grumpy for some other reasons.