Re: What would you do in this Situation
IF AND ONLY IF many years have passed… I would just stay quiet and keep away from my abuser.
After so many years people change and there is no reason to ruin many people’s lives over something that has happened say 10+ years ago. What if the abuser has repented, is married and has kids of his own now? You’ll be dragging too many people down in this mess. Oh and let’s not forget it’s your word agains his…and unfortunately desi’s tend to either be in denial or they dont believe the victim at all.
However, if it is an abuse that is current then it should be reported right away. It’s so important to talk to kids about sexual abuse, the signs, what to look out for and what to do if they have been abused. I know for a fact that I am going to be one paranoid mother when it comes to sexual abuse. 