Room issue.

[Fefe]

Re: Room issue.

@newbee13

My husband thinks I’m right that we should have the room but he feels I should speak to his mother.. He said he will sit with me and support what I say.. But he thinks I can speak better and I need to my put my point across.

Everyone on my end told me I need to discuss the matter with mil so she knows that i won’t tolerate mistreatment and being taken for granted.

Mil visits for 2.5 months a year. The jaithani came once for three months and spent only one night in this house. Her family doesn’t live in the same city so she didn’t visit.

And I have a close relationship with my mil. I have been meeting her since 8 years. We go shopping together watch movies and she discusses everything..when things were bad with jaithani she would talk to us about how horrible she is all the time. But now she’s behaving and everyone is good with her.

But right now I feel she’s avoiding a fight so making me be the victim here..since I’ve never spoken up she knows it’ll go smoothly. Other one is just a pain. She screams and fights.

But just for jaithanis happiness I’ll be uncomfortable? What about kids.ill have a family soon

Kids soon? This will take time!!!

Seriously if I were you, I would not speak to the MIL about the room. Let your husband do it. It will not look good coming from you, no matter what way you say it. And how is the room issue mistreatment of you?

As I said previously get the wedding out of the way and focus on the important stuff like building relationships n get your husband to store clothes in spare room of its such a bother to you. They will soon see that you need the room. Be Patient!!