...to stare at other desi women?.....
They just want to notice the finer details... e.g.
I remember talking to a guy friend of mine in the mall. We were standing close to the escalators and all of a sudden I see this totally glazed expression in his eyes. I looked to where he's looking and what do I see...a woman wearing a short leather miniskirt and a sheer black chiffon blouse with her lingerie clearly visible coming down the escalator. .........