Right age gap for marriage?

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in my opinion no age is good enough. marriage can be hell on earth so why bother.

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I am sorry but I am gonna have to disagree with you. I don't think marriage can be hell on earth. Yes there are ups and downs but that doesn't mean that it is not a sucessful marriage.

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Apna zamana aap banatay hein ahl-e-dil, hum wo nahin ke jin ko zamana bana gia :halo:

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Nice. very well said.:slight_smile: :k:

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Whenever you can't control yourself.

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when u find the right person

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I couldn’t agree more.

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There is not definate age to get married, just get married according to your own perception & follow ur instinct. Though I am not saying I am againt ur theory but I think for a man 23-26 age of marriage is too young. The earliest is 28 in my dictionary for a man, but for a woman, 23-26 is ideal age.

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Issues not really age its to do with capability...your more capable and more mature as you get older...
The male is also the breadwinner or atleast he'll insist on it...so for me when iv got my own place, earning loadsa money and have secuirty then only then will i consider getting married...these are prerequisites and i reckon for me that'll probably happen when im about 28-30...

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prerequisites? from Islamic point of view or just your opinion. I mean I understand that you have to feed your family after marriage but does that feeding mean that you HAVE to buy kabaab and chicken everyday when you can survive on something lesser expensive. And does that feeding mean that you HAVE to have a mercedes/bmw in order for you to survive.

Or is it that we have just set our standards too high that when we talk of plain bread instead of 'Kabaab' or 'Chicken Tikka', we almost faint

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:k::blush:

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Personally i got married at 24 but my friends are all getting married later. It all depends on when u meet the right person.

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Hopefully, before i’m 22 :teary2:

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Don’t be sad. Someday some1 should come along. In a hadith, it is said that no person leaves this world without getting his share, whether it is regarding marriage, wealth or anything else.:blush:

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there are so many counterexamples, starting with all the kids dying from desease and war…
but those on that site are amongst the most happy and lucky people of the planet: no warzone, medicines widely avalaible , no food/water shortage

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No its something different than that.. :smiley:

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Yes it is true that so many ppl die everyday. But that does not God made them die before/after their appointed time for death. Whenever a person dies, then it is at that time God willed him/her to die. When the time for a person's death come, it (the death) will not come b4 the appointed time nor will it be delayed. When I say in my post that a person does not leave this world until he/she gets his/her share, I am not limiting this to just wealth or any other luxury of this world. It could be anything, even one bite of food.

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