What is the right age gap for girl and a guy? we are talking about traditional families here.
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Fifteen.
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oh come on now.... i'm asking for wife not a kid to adopt
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Right. So am I.
Fifteen.
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if i'm 25, you think i should marry 10 yr old girl?
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Case in Point: The Prophet (SAW) and Aisha (R)
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^ Is it sarcasm or what???You are henious sometimes...in qouting your examples...
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Why is it heinous??
Isn't it like a fact that the Prophet married someone so much younger than him (whether she was 6 or 12 or 16, who knows), but she was much younger than him in age.
He asked for traditional families. I gave him the age that Pakistani tradition dictates.
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Five sounds good.
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well uss zamaaney mey yeh age gapes were usual.. i’m talking about these days
.. c the point is mom says.. 18 to 21 will be good for you since she wouldn’t have developed her personality yet. so she will develop according to your nature.
so i’m looking at 4 to 7 years gap.
but girl age 22 or 23 has already developed personality…so most of the time its hard to mold her.
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I won’t argue on it any more…Why do you want to qoute the age of Hazrat Aisha,as an example for the right marriage age…it seems mocking to me…
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Haha. Let me fortell the future of this thread. People are going to be more agitated that I cited Aisha (R)'s young age as an example, and people will ignore this comment.
"develop according to your nature"
"hard to mold her"
Lalas, your mom seems to really want some tight control over her bahu, ey? And lemme guess. Like a typical Pakistani guy, you're going to go haan haan along with your mom and then make some girl's life miserable by not allowing to, oh GOD FORBID, develop her own personality, so GOD FORBID, when your mom is wrong, she GOD FORBID, put your mom in place.
Oh typical Pakistani family matters.
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Age gap of 5 years once age 20 is reached by younger party is ok. Before that is just wrong.
So girl 20, guy 25 type deal is cool.
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yes 4-7 is fine…people mainly look for age gaps …as woman’s reproductive age ends earlier then men’s…it is not true that at 22-23 ,someone has alreay their own views developed…besides why do u want someone,where u can instill ur own views…
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Can the girl be 25, and the guy be 20?
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Sure, why not. Although given that chicks mature younger, its probably a good idea for the bloke to me a tad older, allowing them to have the same mental age.
I'm 21, I am not mature enough for anything more then casual, unprotected college sex, which should kickstart soon. :D
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Well at least you admit your mental age is that of a pre-teen, even though you are 21.
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Sure, we guys are pretty dumb. I mean maybe we get by academically using the parrot spoon fed method, but chicks are much smarter.
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unprotected college sex?
My New Year's Wish for you is to get like 10 chicks pregnant, and then those 10 kids arrive knocking at your door in like 2030 when you actually might find someone to marry. Then those kids can demand inheritance and college money.
Evil, yes, I know.
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don’t be so judgemental guria… my mom wants me to live seperate after marriage, so my wife can have her privacy and live the way she wants (not many moms are so considerate)… point is that i have never been around girls in real life.. so for me its like most ppl say 18-19 is better than 23-24. so i’m just taking views of here. while you are taking it to whole different argument.