Guys who are looking for someone with a cool head on her shoulders should marry a girl 25-33 Those who like younger can enjoy the youth but have to deal with other issues. If you want someone who can make you parathay, or someone who can clean after you, then please don't try to get a PhD. Try a college drop out, which btw are many in number!
Girls looking for someone with sound financial back ground should look for 30+ dudes or someone with a family history of money. If they are looking for someone to make a home with rather than get a home, they can look for guys between 25-30 and those who just want to spend life and enjoy can go even younger.
Seriously though, no one can have it all, often you have to make compromises. This thread reminded me of an acquaintance who married someone with good financial grounds because she wanted financial stability and children (nothing wrong with it). Well she got both by marrying someone 8 years older, but now she complains that their likes and dislikes from music to people just don't match. DUHHHHH
Girls looking for someone with sound financial back ground should look for 30+ dudes or someone with a family history of money. If they are looking for someone to make a home with rather than get a home, they can look for guys between 25-30 and those who just want to spend life and enjoy can go even younger.
Actually, from Islamic point of view, there are different ages when a person is mature. A person does not have to be 22-23+ to be called mature. There are different ages for different ppl. :)
But to anwser your question.
I dont think there is a specific age. It all depends on the person. Some people are aged 30 and still arent marriage material. And some are 22-23 and are completely ready. But I would set a minimum of 22-23 :) Thats the age many people have a degree
There is no right gap b/w a guy or gal if there is love and they both really want
to make it happen. The norm is 10-20 yrs but i have seen girls marrying guyz much older and guyz marrying girls much younger - simply coz girls age quicker
then men n the sexual drive for women is over by 45 -50 men however can be
sexually active and productive - meaning child bearing all the way to 70 ++
i really, really resisted posting...i mean, the thread was out. it needs to be buried alive. bechara lala.
khair, what make you think that women's sexual drive is over by 45 50? did you know that a woman reaches her sexual peak at 25? while the men reach theirs at 19?
women do undergo menopause at 45, 50. true. at that age, their body undergoes some kind of hormonal changes. one of them is lack of natural lubrication. so...sex isn't that comfortable at that age. but given teh amazing revolution in technology..namely artificial lubrication, a woman can have as pleasurable sex as she did when she was much, much younger. women also can bear children. they may not be able to bear their own children, but can definitely bring a child to term. have you not read of women who give birth at the age of 60? about surrogate mothers?
men...while capable of reproducing, increase their chances of fertilizing with sperm that isn't healthy.
another point...men die before women. women have a longer lifespan.
I think the minimum age gap should be of 4-5 years extending to 10 years as maximum…my mom is 10 years younger than my dad and my fiance is 4 years senior to me…and i think it’s just the perfect…anything more ore less would have be unreasonable for me:halo:
Should be 3-4 years max, not more otherwise serious gaps in personality and maturity levels. Also you don't want to be old man with young bride...just eww
Age gap? shyouldn't be any. or prob. 1 or 2 years only. Yet better, the guy be 7 yrs younger ....... (I've given my reason in a similar thread in Cafe) :D
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.. .. atleast you are honest about wanting younger guyz…
but wait at 40 your 33 year old hubby wud be staring at 25 year olds. ..
.. so u’d have to keep him on a leash..
Quote… KHUMAR
“” khair, what make you think that women’s sexual drive is over by 45 50?
… women do undergo menopause at 45 but but n but “”
As for sex Khumar ..
After the first born sex is over anyways… its gone.. dats why women choose
ceasarian first two borns .. or some do…
But frankly unless you worked out every day kept yurself fit and are naturally
born and gifted beautiful … ever wondered why all the TOP MODELs are
in their early twenties and some late twenties. ( few exceptions. )
( the fertilty example you gave are exception n not the norm lady )
we are looking for norms a standard way of thinking not some wana be MOM
So dont blame the LALA bhai or the male testerone for wanting youth looks
Age destroys and chipsaway at the beauty of women more then it does on
men …dat is why men prefer to mary younger women n should marry them.
So that when men are 40 or 50 they are still looking at a beautiful women n
not some old phat bag lady bulging out like u know what. Sadly most of desi
women do look totaly out of shape and not attractive at all at 45 +
dont ask me why ?
So i would say 10 -15 years is perfect…to keep the spice going… Its a
choice men and women both have . ..You can choose a man 10 yrs younger
but you will loose him when you turn 45.. coz he will most likely be chasing
women who are 25 or 35 yrs old.. Its a natural phenomenon ask GOD nt me
Listen why not take some pictures go out see compare what age does to
women and men both . Then come back and write your comments…
and please quote the norm
not the exceptions.. ok … good luck…
this thread was dead, kaun murdey ko khabar sey utha laaya hey.
