Right age gap for marriage?

[musicmaniac]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

@umair_ahmed

Is it still normal to marry someone your own age?

Gals: yes it is, but make sure to marry um in the late 20's coz most of the guys are immature in their early age
**Guys: **yup it is normal

[Khumar]

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1-2...i can't belive that some ppl are actually saying 6 years..imagine this, when u were 6, she/he was just opening their eyes. i am throughly grossed out by this scenario.

also, mold the girl? excuse me? no one in this day and age is moldable. not even a 10 year old. they are born with their own kind of ideas, and they will do things their own way. it has been this way since the beginning of time. just never been noticed.

[S02]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

@umair_ahmed

Is it still normal to marry someone your own age?

Sure.

A few of my cousins are happily married to people their own age.

My husband and I are only a year apart.

[umair_ahmed_1]

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@Sahar02

Sure.

A few of my cousins are happily married to people their own age.

My husband and I are only a year apart.

Thank God!
With all the talk of pedophilia, I though I was the crazy one here.

[faizy]

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[rimsh_1]

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@lalas2000

well uss zamaaney mey yeh age gapes were usual.. i'm talking about these days .. c the point is mom says.. 18 to 21 will be good for you since she wouldn't have developed her personality yet. so she will develop according to your nature. so i'm looking at 4 to 7 years gap. but girl age 22 or 23 has already developed personality...so most of the time its hard to mold her.

wtf, i dont' believe i am reading this....
"she'll develop according to your nature"
"mold her"

desi ppl seriously need to understand marriage.....

[Mehnaz]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

lol, rimsh, you will be surprised how many people actually still think like this. :D

There is no right age gap. It depends on who you get along with, sometimes it's an older person, younger person or the same age ... it doesn't really matter. There are no set rules.

Personally, I've always liked the idea of an older, distinguished gentleman, but that's just my "preference" ... doesn't mean I would right off other people if they don't fit this profile.

[shweetdreamz]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

depends on what you want out of the partner. a nice young body? stability? companionship (partnership)? or the ability to mold them according to what you like?

lalas for you 16-18 would be good. preferably an airhead who doesnt really know what she wants out of life and feels guilty for the tight jeans she wore to college and will mold to what you like after marriage. good luck!

[musicmaniac]

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@Khumar

1-2...i can't belive that some ppl are actually saying 6 years..imagine this, when u were 6, she/he was just opening their eyes. i am throughly grossed out by this scenario.

also, mold the girl? excuse me? no one in this day and age is moldable. not even a 10 year old. they are born with their own kind of ideas, and they will do things their own way. it has been this way since the beginning of time. just never been noticed.

difference of opinion, some people like me are simply attracted to guys or gals with that much of an age difference.

[Blitzkrieg]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

@shweetdreamz

depends on what you want out of the partner. a nice young body? stability? companionship (partnership)? or the ability to mold them according to what you like?

lalas for you 16-18 would be good. preferably an airhead who doesnt really know what she wants out of life and feels guilty for the tight jeans she wore to college and will mold to what you like after marriage. good luck!

Hmmm molding is always fun! ;)

[shweetdreamz]

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@Blitzkrieg

Hmmm molding is always fun! ;)

good i hope your sister has fun while she gets molded ;)

[lussi]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

sweetdreamz before u get ur panties in a knot ...here is an example of molding..u make round chapatis for ur hubby..but he likes those triangle ones..now if ur young ull easily adapt..and start making those garam garam triangle chapatis..so molding will make u a good wife and have u serve ur life's purpose..

[shweetdreamz]

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@lussi

sweetdreamz before u get ur panties in a knot …here is an example of molding..u make round chapatis for ur hubby..but he likes those triangle ones..now if ur young ull easily adapt..and start making those garam garam triangle chapatis..so molding will make u a good wife and have u serve ur life’s purpose..

actually i dont plan to marry a phakkar desi that cant afford a maid.

[lussi]

Re: Right age gap for marriage?

but if u can afford a maid then why marry?

[shweetdreamz]

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^^ well it might be that some men marry for other reasons than to have a sex slave/ slave on hand. believe it or not. since they already have a maid. the other phakkar ones just need a substitute for their mommys.

[lussi]

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but housework is the the best use u can put a woman to...no need to be ashamed in that..much more desi women are housewives than rocket scientists..

[shweetdreamz]

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@lussi

but housework is the the best use u can put a woman to...no need to be ashamed in that..much more desi women are housewives than rocket scientists..

correction. housework is the best use a phakkar man can put a woman to.:p and desi women = housewives will change. maybe not fast enough but it will. change is permanent. unavoidable.

[lussi]

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or maybenot..maybe some desi women have more regard for their house and kids...and would rather stay in..

[shweetdreamz]

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@lussi

or maybenot..maybe some desi women have more regard for their house and kids…and would rather stay in..

and get fat and give the animal male a reason to cheat on her and then forgive him and then get depressed and then have it all boil up inside and then turn into a shreiking screaming lady and then age faster than man and then turn into desi auntie and then take it all out on the daughter in law and try to mold her too and thus the cycle continues.

[amelie]

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Doesn't matter. There are mature 20 year olds and immature 30 year olds in both sexes....i think other things matter more than age.