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hahahaahahahahahahahaha
Lala - trust me love, im aged-ly perfect for you, and yet, and yet....
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PCG, define virgin.
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the great formula is Man age divide by 2 plus 5
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lets say u r 24 and u would marry a 17 yr old girl??
not realistic in todays world u know!
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when its tru love they wuld know
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I would like to thank everyone for thier feedbacks....some ppl took me wrong by the word "molding" what i really meant was that i heard ppl saying young girls adapt the behavior according to thier huband's nature as opposed to girls over 22. Since they have not defined goals or thier personalities are not fully developed. on the contrary girls above 21 or 22 are much matured and has already shaped personalites which sometimes leads to more compromises, expectation and demands after marriage.
PCG: Pakistani Traditional family doesn't mean that family is backward or try to press a girl. It means ppl whose lifestyle is that they like to live together and women in the home are more "gheroloo" then todays totally independent and outgoing hi 5 type girls. again its a matter of personal choice and nature.
Few of my friends likes to have totally americanized girl while i like to have traditional "ghereloo" girl.
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ALHUMDULLILAH i try to follow sunnah of Prophet as much as i can… but sorry yeh sunnat puri karney ki himat nahi hey mujh mey abhi 
(refering to nikah of 25 with 40 yrd old)
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more compromises, expectation and demands
You think you’re not going to have that with a ghereloo woman?
And I take offense at the “hi 5” remark. 
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In todays world its rare u be married at 24! the formula works great.. worked for me 
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Most of my friends in Pakistan got married with 4-8 years gap. My husband and I have the gap of 8 years. I have also seen the age gap of 15 years, but both of the partners are happily married, both are fun loving.
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i :love: that post PCG!
looking for threads on the topic
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sorry,
serious answer:
each girl mature differently according to personal experience! so there is no such thing as "ideal" age gap!! rather concentrate on the girl personality, someone who fits you and share your goals in life! in terms of where to live, how many kids, house or working wife...etc
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^ Exactly.
Don't dismiss potential partners just because they aren't the right number.
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The bigger the gap the better - since women age quickly and men's need remain the same.
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Actually, you are wrong to begin with.
You cited one example and forgot one.
Let me help you.
You put a sarcastic remark by mentioning Prophet:saw: and Aisah:razi2: and their age difference.
Did you forget that Prophet:saw: was 25 **years **old when he married Khadija:razi2: at the time when she was **40 years **old?
So, what does Sunnah of our Prophet:saw: tell us by both of the two examples?
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PCG well sorry u r truly hi 5 type girl 
and there is no way i can take a takkar with ya…so better u discuss ur “wahiaat dialogue” someone else…
well i don’t have high demands and expectations from anyone…and in matter of marriage…i believe on uncondtional love…and i believe i will get more in return
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I think 3-5 years gap is good :)
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2-6 yrs
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Is it still normal to marry someone your own age?