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My main motivation for undertaking postgraduate study, prolonging it as much as, it to perpetuate my enjoyment of the student lifestyle.
You know you did/do the same thing.
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Hey, you are the one nodding to your mother about getting a younger girl so you can brainwash her into believing your views.
By the way, your mom is really outdated if she thinks teenagers haven't developed a mind of their own yet, and if she thinks they're mold-able.
In your case, I really do recommend a 10 year old, actually.
Legbreak: You wish I slept around when I was in college. Beta, study hard, and get a real job. That's my sincere advice to you. None of this sex wex. It only leads to distractions and well, maybe more distractions when you found your sperm turned into a bratty 5 year old that needs part of your weekly paycheck for its food and clothes.
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well i appreciate your comments guria…now let me take other ppl views and please discuss your college sex stories in other threads 
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Me?
I have no plans to marry until I'm say 30 odd, thats like almost a decade.
At 30, established career (inshallah), I'll find me some 26 year old party surfer chick...
That'll last until I'm 33, then another 5 year plan....
Al Pacino never married, and he's the coolest guy ever...
I miss college, this gap year is killing me, stuck at home.
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And I bet GS girls will read over your comment and say to themselves “Oh boys will be boys”…
And then read your comments and say… “Oh, PCG is a ho-bag? Sleepin’ around? Oh that nasty little…”
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I'm an open minded sorta guy. Some milage on the clock can be an assurance of quality. :D
You go girl!
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thanks for ruining my thread :( mod perhaps lock this thread
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“ho ho ho” …
…lol lol… i sympathize with lalas now…
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Ruining, how so?
Is Cote good?
He’s magnificent…
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Mr. Googly, I am a virgin, thanks highly much.
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Its cool.
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Mr. Googly, meet lalas. He is in search for fulfilling companionship.
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No way!
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five yrs maximum!
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Traditional...hmm not sure there...but i think the "norm" thesedays is around 2 yrs. with the woman being younger...but i know of women marrying guys younger than them also. Most elders advise that the age gap be a few yrs., bcos in general girls mature faster...so sometimes a 20 yr. old girl is at the same mental level as a 23 yr. old guy...my parents r seven yrs. apart, to me that is too much! But Alhumdulilah, they have had a wonderful marriage...most of my cousins who have been married in the last several yrs, have all had a 1 to 6 yr. gap btwn their spouses...so it depends on the person too. Like, when i was younger i was almost positive that i wanted a guy who was not more than three yrs. older than me...even though back then, most guys my age were clowns...but the older guys seemed boring and too intellectual to me and i wud rather have someone by my side who can laff with me thru life...and, thank God i found a well-balanced man who just happens to be four yrs. older than me...but it varies a lot... so over the yrs., i've actually learnt that some younger guys r very mature for their age...n some older girls act like kids...so i don't look at the ages, or age gaps now...wot's more important, is how well they hit it off and attraction etc. :)
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5+ yrs. guy should be older. in my opinion
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Polling online in search of such answers may not be a
great idea. Internet where there are thousand mouths
may each have a story of its own. You'll get answers
ranging from 1 to 100. At the end of the day only you
must ask yourself what's suitable for you.
Another important issue; people should not be wedded
in order to be molded. It's not fair to expect a person
to alter their whole existence to suit the likes of another.
That's called personality damage and may be detrimental
for marriage in the long run. There's a difference between
adapting and molding. The former is much healthier than
the latter.
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Lalas, your mom seems to really want some tight control over her bahu, ey? And lemme guess. Like a typical Pakistani guy, you're going to go haan haan along with your mom and then make some girl's life miserable by not allowing to, oh GOD FORBID, develop her own personality, so GOD FORBID, when your mom is wrong, she GOD FORBID, put your mom in place.
Oh typical Pakistani family matters.
I agree, why mold her according to your family wishes.
she is a human with her own personality.. don't try to mold her with stick or exploiting her innocence, just let her do that by her own if she wants...
However, before getting into relationship let her know what is unacceptable for u and ask her the same, if all good fine otherwise whose next :)
5-7 years older guy is a best bet!
