Responsibilities of a Mother

[sadzzz]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

@jaan_leva

I DO get her point, thats what I said. I do understand that but what I said is that mother has shifted her responsibilities to more material things and kids are not her only priority anymore. I wish I would get same type of “DO GET YOUR POINT” but we have certain obstacles or whatever thus need to work full time and part time the kids. But what do I get? Extremist feminist crap. Snap out of it.

ok here you go..

I do get your point about spending time with kids

but

I do not agree with the reasons you are giving for it, and nor do I agree with why you think mothers work.

but then again

your view on materialistic things, maybe very different from what the rest of this threads poppulation thinks ← ah ha! there’s the problem

[_MuNiYa]

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We’re talking as a society here… Werent you worried about us not producing good leaders

[sadzzz]

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@jaan_leva

Change dads.

JK!!! Don’t kill me for it.

nope, my dad was and is brilliant.

And so is my husband

[jaan_leva]

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Sadzzz,
thats good to hear.

@_MuNiYa

We’re talking as a society here… Werent you worried about us not producing good leaders

After advent of the evil, corrupt, anti-women’s respect feminism movement, name top 5 leaders that the world has produced? Maybe not directly after it but in last 50 years? You see corrupt politicians everywhere… as a society, we are producing more criminals, confused, weak people who can’t take little bit of stress and lack problem solving ability. More and more schools and public places are being shot up… direct result of kids who never got that motherly love because mother was too busy working full time and poor chap got part-timed and multi-tasked.

[sadzzz]

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so explain why we have psychotic idiots running around gang raping, acid throwing, butchering, molesting… in Pakistan? where supposedly a lot more women are at home raising kids…

[jaan_leva]

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Bad company? Bad company of those who were raised by part time mothers? And how do we know that those who commit such heinous crimes were actually raised by full time mothers? We don’t know that. Maybe their parents got divorced or some separation or she died? Or the over all culture of the home/extended family was such, maybe they were abused by someone who was raised motherless?

[S02]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

@jaan_leva

Sadzzz,
thats good to hear.

After advent of the evil, corrupt, anti-women’s respect feminism movement, name top 5 leaders that the world has produced? Maybe not directly after it but in last 50 years? You see corrupt politicians everywhere… as a society, we are producing more criminals, confused, weak people who can’t take little bit of stress and lack problem solving ability. More and more schools and public places are being shot up… direct result of kids who never got that motherly love because mother was too busy working full time and poor chap got part-timed and multi-tasked.

Do you have any evidence to suggest that the political leaders of the past were saints?

[Niksik]

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Oh no.

So all the world problems now are because women went to work?

[S02]

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^Yes, didn’t you know? Before the 20th century, the world was a Utopia!

[khattichic]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

^yes Niks…didn’t you get the memo!!! Now let’s join hands and run through the streets burning our bras and chanting anti male anti children slogans…the *feminazis *​that we are

[sadzzz]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

^ lol

there should be a thread about why people in general are raised with these misconceptions..

[jaan_leva]

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The faster we all realize our **responsibilities **the faster we can turn the tide of the history or future for that matter.

Lord’s green earth deserves better than part-timed and **multi-tasked **kids… the good people of this world should not be left to deal with such social-pollution in form of confused, weak, socially inept, loveless and mother-deprived generation.

I never said feminist extremists are anti-children, you just prioritize them lower than your career, lifestyle, money and that is unfortunate.

That is all folks.

[Mehnaz]

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^ wow.

[khattichic]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

As my @Milly would say “Tu Raenday”

[sadzzz]

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@jaan_leva

I never said feminist extremists are anti-children, you just prioritize them lower than your career, lifestyle, money and that is unfortunate.

That is all folks.

which would mean none of us are feminists extremists… CUS we do put our kids as a priority

[somegroovychick]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

@jaan_leva

Its the father who makes the most sacrifices. Mothers don’t have to work, they chose to work, its an option. Its the father who goes out hunting, takes risks, for his family. These mothers who work would rather be out and about, “working” than staying at home and taking care of what needs to be taken care of. Today mother’s sacrifice is those 9 months that she keeps the child in her belly and then she leaves the poor kid to a nanny or a sick sick sick place called day care, so she can work and get her nails done and hair massages and keep minimum wage nanny employed. The father is left with, not 9 months but over 21 *years *of responsibility… his decisions, choices, risks in those 21 years can make or break the family’s back permanently.

chaar paisey na banaye tou kya ho jai ga? bachey tou theek tarha se paal poos lo.

An educated woman + home schooling her child could be a solution to major social problems we face today.

I have no idea what privileged world you live in or what kind of mothers you know, but most women in north america HAVE to work in order to have a comfortable life with their family. and some lower wage families also need two working parents just to meet the basic requirements of raising a healthy child and having a roof over their heads. being a parent is as much about providing for your children as it is about raising them to be good people.

as well, in north america, there is no such thing as a minimum wage nanny. nannies cost much, much more than daycares do. most women i know who employ nannies do so because they have more than one child and need the additional pair of hands around the house which is completely understandable.

lastly, i find your insinuation that a working mother raises poor children extremely offensive. almost all of the people i know, myself included, had moms who went to work and all of us have grown up to be well rounded, normal, healthy and happy adults, and we’re very close to our parents.

[somegroovychick]

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@jaan_leva

I wish, feminist extremists would look at the subject as whole and not resort to name calling. There is nothing narrow minded about believing in a traditional family system and not agree with the system which sacrifices the well being of the kids so mother and father can “up” their living standard/style a bit. Sad.

if making sure there is a roof over their heads, clothes on their backs, and food on the table is “upping their living standard”, then more power to those husbands AND wives who work in tandem to make sure their kids don’t just have the basics, but every little bit of extra they can afford to give them-- whether that be an annual family vacation, new clothes at eid, or a house big enough for the kids to have a room of their own.

[somegroovychick]

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

@jaan_leva

The faster we all realize our **responsibilities **the faster we can turn the tide of the history or future for that matter.

Lord’s green earth deserves better than part-timed and **multi-tasked **kids… the good people of this world should not be left to deal with such social-pollution in form of confused, weak, socially inept, loveless and mother-deprived generation.

I never said feminist extremists are anti-children, you just prioritize them lower than your career, lifestyle, money and that is unfortunate.

That is all folks.

were you raised by a sahm?

[jaan_leva]

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Uff Allah meri touba, somegrooveychick, aap rehti ho abhi? GS has an army of feministas, unbelievable!!!

I’ve said enough so I am not going to repeat my self, we all have our opinions, etc. so lets agree to disagree… like **responsible **adults that we are.

[somegroovychick]

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^ seriously? you can’t come in, talk trash about working mothers, and then walk away saying “we’re all entitled to our opinions”!