Real Life, Real Issues

[misswrong]

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My real life issues:

Figuring out how to make my career goals happen. Figuring out when to get married Before that, be able to make decent money. Student loans :'(

Astagfirullah....

girls should not have issue thinking about making money.
they always have option to get married and forget about everything else even with a little money :D

[MonkeyMirch]

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Astagfirullah....

girls should not have issue thinking about making money. they always have option to get married and forget about everything else even with a little money :D

I hope you are joking.

[misswrong]

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@MonkeyMirch

I hope you are joking.

I am not joking

Its good if girls are making money but its not that important to make good money.

Aurtien iss liay peda nahi hoyen k paisa paisa karti rahien…they are meant to be taken care by Father/Husband to the utmost possibility.
This is us who have made life miserable by trying to be “self sufficient” & “independent”

[system]

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^Kyun paisa paisa kartee hai, kyun paisay pe tu martee hai.

I agree though. I know that I am making my life more difficult by wanting to be independent. But, if I weren't I'd HATE myself. I'd better live a life that is difficult but I love it.

[P_G]

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mere parents mujh say khush ho jaain .. main un k ley massail ka hal sabit hoon na k masaail ki jar : (

[mizsani]

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hmmm.. mine are tooo many to count! lol but I will give you the most recent one

I have an indian soap opera type MIL to be
I am addicted to gym and eating healthy. I am really toned and have nice, toned, muscular biceps (not too big just not all super thin.. basically medium) so my MIL to be thinks I am fat because I do not look anorexic like her other 2 DILs (I loveeee the other 2 they are amazing but they seriously starve themselves all the time) so she told me to stop eating cheese which is funny because I realllyy do not like cheese. lol being the rebel that I am, I have decided to make her a cheese cake for her birthday hahahah I cant wait!!! ohh the irony.

[SuperNova]

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Today, my gf told me I should end uni early and get a job so we can get married, because then she’ll have enough money to buy the Jewelery set she’s had hr eyes on for our whole relationship …

[mizsani]

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@SuperNova

Today, my gf told me I should end uni early and get a job so we can get married, because then she’ll have enough money to buy the Jewelery set she’s had hr eyes on for our whole relationship …

hhehhhehe tht sux

[princess_ku]

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@SuperNova

Today, my gf told me I should end uni early and get a job so we can get married, because then she’ll have enough money to buy the Jewelery set she’s had hr eyes on for our whole relationship …

hahaha

it means she’s not sincere wd u… she can leave u at any instance for money… if any1 else can offer a big amount or rich then u , she will left u instantly…

worse thinking

[misswrong]

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@Curious Lady

^Kyun paisa paisa kartee hai, kyun paisay pe tu martee hai.

I agree though. I know that I am making my life more difficult by wanting to be independent. But, if I weren’t I’d HATE myself. I’d better live a life that is difficult but I love it.

Yar imagine for an instance how good those times were when kapray wala, muniyaari wala, chori wala, sunaar (jeweler) everybody used to come to home to show their stuff to the ladies of the house on every ocassion like eid, wedding or watsoever. women used to chose from their range or refuse and ask him/her to bring more variety. that looks ROYAL. now women walks in the markets like gawaachi gaan to find things for them self. ch ch ch. such a pity. same is with career phobia. Women had no stress from where money is coming they just used to tell what they need and it was husbands headache from where to arrange that. We want Independence but see what we have lost on the name of it.

[NomiCA]

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@misswrong

Yar imagine for an instance how good those times were when kapray wala, muniyaari wala, chori wala, sunaar (jeweler) everybody used to come to home to show their stuff to the ladies of the house on every ocassion like eid, wedding or watsoever. women used to chose from their range or refuse and ask him/her to bring more variety. that looks ROYAL. now women walks in the markets like gawaachi gaan to find things for them self. ch ch ch. such a pity. same is with career phobia. Women had no stress from where money is coming they just used to tell what they need and it was husbands headache from where to arrange that. We want Independence but see what we have lost on the name of it.

:k:

[misswrong]

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@NomiCA

:k:

Thanx Nomica

[princess_ku]

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also yar there is no respect in market for females…

[misswrong]

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@princess_ku

also yar there is no respect in market for females…

We have lost it our selve…and we cant undo that. Our so called wise ladies still like going to markets getting khawaar after finding everything from buttons/laces to the fabric. and sir khapaying with darzis. Gone are the days when women were treated like princess. and everything was provided at door step. I wish those times were back…

[princess_ku]

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waise b pehle females khud kaam karti thi aur ab logon se balke prefer males to do............

Tailor ha tu wo shopkeeper se le kar tailor tak males

[Deeba1234]

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@misswrong

Yar imagine for an instance how good those times were when kapray wala, muniyaari wala, chori wala, sunaar (jeweler) everybody used to come to home to show their stuff to the ladies of the house on every ocassion like eid, wedding or watsoever. women used to chose from their range or refuse and ask him/her to bring more variety. that looks ROYAL.** now women walks in the markets like gawaachi gaan to find things for them self. ch ch ch. such a pity. same is with career phobia. Women had no stress from where money is coming they just used to tell what they need** and it was husbands headache from where to arrange that. We want Independence but see what we have lost on the name of it.

Are u seriously saying it’s better if women don’t even go out shopping??

Why don’t u ask those women who have to ask their husbands for ‘pocket money’ like a child every time they need something if they really feel proud or like a ‘princess’.. If u really think women in those sorts of relationships have no stress about money u must be living in a bubble..

[Deeba1234]

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@misswrong

I am not joking
**
Its good if girls are making money but its not that important to make good money. **

Aurtien iss liay peda nahi hoyen k paisa paisa karti rahien…they are meant to be taken care by Father/Husband to the utmost possibility.
This is us who have made life miserable by trying to be “self sufficient” & “independent”

What if the husband abuses or cheats on her?? Isn’t it likely the wife will be stuck in that bad marriage cos she has no other option..

I know u said it’s father or brother’s responsibility but lets be honest how many times do those family members encourage or financially help a daughter who has gone thru a bad marriage or divorce? Most of them are too busy with their own families and don’t want the hassle..

I think you’ll find in the majority of cases those ‘independent’ and ‘self-sufficient’ girls are the ones who have been able to cope the best in those bad situations.. I’ve never come across anyone who’s miserable cos they chose to go out and get an education or work..

Being ‘self-sufficient’ is a negative

[misswrong]

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@Deeba1234

Are u seriously saying it’s better if women don’t even go out shopping??

Why don’t u ask those women who have to ask their husbands for ‘pocket money’ like a child every time they need something if they really feel proud or like a ‘princess’.. If u really think women in those sorts of relationships have no stress about money u must be living in a bubble..

I dont understand…if you have to ask your husband for pocket money every time then your ego is hurt. when you have to work in office under some moron within so many ass holes/ *es then Your ego is pampered? You can listen to all the bull/crap and deal with office politics but hate to listen if your husband/brothers says anything??? If that is the most desired thing…you girls should not be taking " money making" & “career making” stress on your nerves. choice is Yours. you want to work like donkeys and can digest your boss’s crap or you would prefer asking your hubby / brother for “pocket money”

@Deeba1234

What if the husband abuses or cheats on her?? Isn’t it likely the wife will be stuck in that bad marriage cos she has no other option..

I know u said it’s father or brother’s responsibility but lets be honest how many times do those family members encourage or financially help a daughter who has gone thru a bad marriage or divorce? Most of them are too busy with their own families and don’t want the hassle..

I think you’ll find in the majority of cases those ‘independent’ and ‘self-sufficient’ girls are the ones who have been able to cope the best in those bad situations.. I’ve never come across anyone who’s miserable cos they chose to go out and get an education or work..

Being ‘self-sufficient’ is a negative

Sweetheart , like i said this being “financially nonindependent” has give us so many things. Including decrease in tolerance level and increase in divorce ratio. when we know “hum kisi say lay kar nahi khatay” then why should we bear with husband cheating on us or brother yelling at us. I understand, women should have skills, education , i am not at all against it but it should be kept only for those times when we have no other option. Shouq shouq main ya sirf apni EGO ko pamper karney k liay if you are working thats stupid of women.

If men have right of having 4 wives and also they have right that we should obey father/brother/husband then we are made “fragile” and this is their duty to provide us bread & butter and all the comfort. why the hell on the name of “independence” we are sacrificing our peace. And honestly i have seen this “aurat ke kamai main barkat nahi hoti”. True that is.

Women should work ONLY when they have no other option.

Men are made to provide livelihood & women are for house hold things. How hilarious would it look if u use Jet C130 for war and F16 for cargo

Sorry to all women…no offence plz…its just how i feel.

[Guac]

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[NomiCA]

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@misswrong

I dont understand…if you have to ask your husband for pocket money every time then your ego is hurt.** when you have to work in office under some moron within so many ass holes/ es then Your ego is pampered? You can listen to all the bull*/crap and deal with office politics but hate to listen if your husband/brothers says anything??? If that is the most desired thing…you girls should not be taking " money making" & “career making” stress on your nerves. choice is Yours. you want to work like donkeys and can digest your boss’s crap or you would prefer asking your hubby / brother for “pocket money”

Sweetheart , like i said this being “financially nonindependent” has give us so many things. Including decrease in tolerance level and increase in divorce ratio. when we know “hum kisi say lay kar nahi khatay” then why should we bear with husband cheating on us or brother yelling at us. I understand, women should have skills, education ,** i am not at all against it but it should be kept only for those times when we have no other option. Shouq shouq main ya sirf apni EGO ko pamper karney k liay if you are working thats stupid of women. **

If men have right of having 4 wives and also they have right that we should obey father/brother/husband then we are made “fragile” and this is their duty to provide us bread & butter and all the comfort. why the hell on the name of “independence” we are sacrificing our peace. And honestly i have seen this “aurat ke kamai main barkat nahi hoti”. True that is.

Women should work ONLY when they have no other option.
Men are made to provide livelihood & women are for house hold things. How hilarious would it look if u use Jet C130 for war and F16 for cargo

Sorry to all women…no offence plz…its just how i feel.

once more..

P.S… I am ur fan now:cadet: