would you still work after marraige even if… you didnt need the money and say you have no kidz to raise and dont plan on having kidz for another couple of years?----i know this may not be realistic..its a hypothetical question..
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yeap... i didnt work my butt of at school/uni for nothing... I'd think the question for me would be "would you every stop working?"... and no... not unless someone really required my presence at home.. like my bubz or any family member...
yeah..no what..i think if i did not work after marriage...i might go crazy..
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^ yeah, same case for me.... i figure, if i keep busy at work, I'd have less time thinking abotu irrelevant issues..
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That second income can really come handy at times but at a greater loss.
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and the loss is?
what do u mean by greater loss?..
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khud samjho... you didn't go to school/uni for nothing.
jl dude..i dont see any loss in wife workin..i actually think itll keep her busy adn content...unless ur talklin bout kidz..but my question said no kidz planned or anothr couple of years..remember?...oh wiseone..
would you still work after marraige even if..... you didnt need the money and say you have no kidz to raise and dont plan on having kidz for another couple of years?----i know this may not be realistic..its a hypothetical question..
i wudnt y wud have work when i got money n all the things i need to live happily.........oh yeh but if i hav kids..... like i do .... i wud wanna get sum part tym job u know just to get my self out of tht MOMMY shell n be a girl/woman my self...... everybody needs their own tym..... m actually guna start workn when my kids start teir school :)
P.S its a v realistic q housewives /women go thru these qs alot
P.S its a v realistic q housewives /women go thru these qs alot
thanks..:)
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I am no wise one when we have sadzzz here but if you prefer that title for me, I can talk to the admin.
Even if no kid, think:
Loss of time with your husband
Your family (no kids, i know)
No body to take care of the house as it should be... no matter how "sugharr" the husband is, housekeeping is best left for women.
Issues at the job
Who wants their wife to be joked around with or looked at at work place?
Potential for an affair (don't bs with me that it doesn't happen)
Husband sleeping without eating food because you had to work and you are tired... unless, of course, the great MIL kicks in. :D
you could get into an accident on your way to and from work
Serious issue if you make more than the man of the house
... and list goes on.
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I would definetly work even if i did not have to or run my own business or something....never know what the future holds in store for you. even if you are qualified in something, if you have not had work experience or kept up with latest practical issues related to the profession, it would be dfficult to enter the work force incase you are in a situation whereby you are forced to earn a living.
I am no wise one when we have sadzzz here but if you prefer that title for me, I can talk to the admin.
Even if no kid, think:
Loss of time with your husband Your family (no kids, i know) No body to take care of the house as it should be... no matter how "sugharr" the husband is, housekeeping is best left for women. Issues at the job Who wants their wife to be joked around with or looked at at work place? Potential for an affair (don't bs with me that it doesn't happen) Husband sleeping without eating food because you had to work and you are tired... unless, of course, the great MIL kicks in. :D you could get into an accident on your way to and from work Serious issue if you make more than the man of the house ... and list goes on.
-wouldnt want husband down my throat 24/7..that can spoil 'love' also imo
-family..as i said...n/a
-its about time husband started learning how to take care of house..they have hands and feet too..nd brain..they can start using these at home too..its not an alien place for them either
-married owman should be responsible enough adn mature to handle issues at job if shes handling a marriage
-if u dont want anybody to 'look' at ur wife other than husband then i think that guy is sick..shes not a n object shes a living person...and ppl could joke about any1 man or woman..and she could very well be joked about by her inlaws or husband's freinds
-if husband htinks potential for affair when he thinks wife at job ..then that guy already has some prior trust issues wid his wife
-its about time husband learns how to cook..its not unheard of u know
-an accident could happen if shes gogin grocery shopping too..or any time housewife goes out of the house..r u paranoid?..
-ur last point..then gonna have to dela with husband's inferiorrity complex..which is not presetn in everyone..at least not if the guy is mature and educated..i think
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I think working part-time is a great option for women...but not when they have kids...there is NO way I would want to leave them home alone or even with someone 'responsible'...daycare is totally out of the question......I would die of guilt :)
its all about priorities....
I really do think that women who are stay home moms/wives...should take classes to keep their minds fresh..and informed...because times change really fast....and we must stay on top of things...always....I hate the feeling of being out of touch with things around me.....
I am no wise one when we have sadzzz here but if you prefer that title for me, I can talk to the admin.
Even if no kid, think:
Loss of time with your husband Your family (no kids, i know) No body to take care of the house as it should be... no matter how "sugharr" the husband is, housekeeping is best left for women. Issues at the job Who wants their wife to be joked around with or looked at at work place? Potential for an affair (don't bs with me that it doesn't happen) Husband sleeping without eating food because you had to work and you are tired... unless, of course, the great MIL kicks in. :D you could get into an accident on your way to and from work Serious issue if you make more than the man of the house ... and list goes on.
Potential for affair at workplace...let us see how that would work. Woman has to make sure all the initial housework taken care of and kids dropped to school before she rushes off to work. All day she is at work as the man is too...evening perhaps pick the kids up from school, prepare for dinner and other chores, kids homework/play time. weekends probly chores and shopping...hmmm..unless she has a reallly understanding boss to give her couple of hours off evrey other day...or is having an affair with the boss there would be no time to have these so-called affairs.A woman who is so inclined to have affair will do so even if not working. Where do you think the expression 'the milkmans baby' originated from?Accidents are just so...accidents...could happen anywhere....even on a trip to/from supermarket.
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You keep mentioning kids, no kids in this thread.
Also, an affair doesn't need time, it only requires a place. :D
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^^ Y not? People have affirs even when they have kids right?Ya..only a place...what like your office desk is ok?
^ jl.. u have no trust in desi women whatsoever..allah kare i dont get husband with this same attitude..
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^ or have an affair with a guy with that kind of attitude!!!!