Question for the men here.............................................

[ll_xx_ll]

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@Ashy2010

Being a girl and having known many girls, I know we start taking guys very seriously. If a guy has talked to us nicely and politely, we start thinking, oh he has started liking me and he wants to be with me. We have this in-built defect. Kia karain ab? But in the dating scene, the guys know their parents best. They should inform the girl of any possible conflicting situation so that the girl can be mentally prepared. Yes, the girls are more emotional as compared to guys but you guys should handle us well. Otherwise, you don’t deserve us

girls are emotional yes but we’re definitely not fragile

my bro dated my bhabhi for four years, my dad was against the marriage but my bro stood his guns and they are married…and my dad loves his DIL now…so plz guys dont temme guys cant stand up for their choice…ive seen it happen…they can and they do… (of course my mom and I were on his side so that may have helped :D)

on the other hand my other bro didnt even date his wife (err at that time she wasnt his wife lol) until my parents knew that she was the one he was going to date … its not that difficult to keep your parents informed…if they are informed baad mein problem/conflict k chances kamm ho jaate hain

[Deeba1234]

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my bro dated my bhabhi for four years, my dad was against the marriage but my bro stood his guns and they are married...and my dad loves his DIL now....so plz guys dont temme guys cant stand up for their choice...ive seen it happen...they can and they do... (of course my mom and I were on his side so that may have helped )

Mine was in a similar situation as well and like yours it all worked out fine in the end..

[NomiCA]

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And have you conducted a survey?

and whats the 'scientific/statistical' basis for your stance??

its always opinions......

[Princess121]

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There's a lot of talk here of guy should do this.. guys should do that.. But when a couple start dating, they're on an adrenaline rush, enjoying the danger thrill in what they're doing, and are infatuated with each other. It takes time to reach a serious level, and then they'll be like oh crap.. should've told my parents... :)

[Shak]

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@NomiCA

and whats the ‘scientific/statistical’ basis for your stance??

its always opinions…

I didn’t exactly paint my view did I :khums:

I simply said you were basing your opinion on a negative stereotype, emphasis on the word negative, while you had nothing to back it up.

Whereas my view was that unless a person has EXPERIENCE dealing with women or has done a survey then their view is based on a stereotype.

That is why I said ‘‘unless’’ in my post. Unless means my view may be wrong and the word ‘‘unless’’ usually means that a person is weighing up two views and then saying their argument instead of following a negative stereotype

[ll_xx_ll]

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/grabs Nomi and Shaki by the collar…takes them into a room and pitaayi karos them …

[LP]

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aik do aur zoor se

@llxxll

/grabs Nomi and Shaki by the collar…takes them into a room and pitaayi karos them …

[LP]

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lawyer:hayaa:

@Shak09

I didn’t exactly paint my view did I :khums:

I simply said you were basing your opinion on a negative stereotype, emphasis on the word negative, while you had nothing to back it up.

Whereas my view was that unless a person has EXPERIENCE dealing with women or has done a survey then their view is based on a stereotype.

That is why I said ‘‘unless’’ in my post. Unless means my view may be wrong and the word ‘‘unless’’ usually means that a person is weighing up two views and then saying their argument instead of following a negative stereotype

[Mirch]

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aik do aur zoor se :D

Kick bhee laga-o zoor say.