quesion for ladies

[Iyla]

Re: quesion for ladies

@P_G

if your husband told you that he want to marry a sum divorced or widow women (and she has a baby from her first husband too ) … …

and he want this just sake of SAWAB …he want to help to that women and her family… …and he want your permission too.. he want to do this with your good support .. ..

and you know your husband loyalty with you ..

what will be your reaction ?

dont say u will seeking other good rishta for her …etcetc

just tell me your reaction . thoughts ,

Just him thinking to marry another woman with a lame excuse of wanting sawab would leave me thinking that there is something seriously wrong with our marriage.

But if that is how he feels, it would shock me but I wouldn’t want to stay with him after that. Who am I to stop him from earning his ‘sawab.’ I would smile at him and tell him he can marry her and to do so hurriedly! And after he does, I’ll go my own way and find my happiness elsewhere.

I know Islam allows men to marry up to 4 wives if they can treat them with equal justice - but I reckon that is simply near impossible for any man to do, which is why I simply don’t accept this.