Re: I don't like kids
pomegranat juice,
kids are so precious when they are little.
please think on your own as to why you feel bothered by kids.
it does require patience to handle their demands but in you maybe they will find a fun older friend.
there are so many books for preschoolers. in autumn take them to leaves hunting, use crayons to draw and learn from their pictures.
eat with them - pizza or ice-cream. if their parents allow you to, and you can get car seat in your car, drive them to get fries or ice-cream and have good music on that they like.
surprise them on their birthday, by bringing them a cup cake with candle on it.
treat kids as young personalities.
ask them to help you clean kitchen or lounge where they ate with you.
you will be so surprise how soon kids pick up what you do in front of them.
and you learn from their alertness.
read stories to them from Quran or from their pre school books.
do math and show them how to read time, count and subtract.
teach them play ground rules. indirectly and through didactic interaction, help them see the value of cooperation in playing with friends.
listen to their conversations, and imaginary object relations with their favorite toys or cartoon characters.
try it, you will feel so great with kids. :)
Dushwari
I cant be bothered to make conversation with them and answer their questions ..i hate when they cry, and scream and my hands itch to smack them when they misbehave
I know that hte problem is not at all with them but its with ME...i have no patience and little tolerance...but still i cant help melting when I walk past baby Gap, i find them very cute (From afar) and contrary to what i said up there, i DO want one of my own in the future
Any parents here know exactly what I'm talking about? :(