Re: Problem marrying a girl who was divorced…
So why is the woman divorced with a 2 year old? Was it abuse from the husband? Did he cheat? Did she cheat? Divorce usually is the inability of two people to make a marriage work. It also usually includes faults on both sides and transgressions, which do repeat in future marriages. Think long and hard about such a situation. Not only are you jumping into a situation you do not fully understand, you are also causing turmoil at home. More so do you think your mom and sister will accept your future wife even if you do get married? Or will they make her life miserable like so many posters have alluded to already? If they are going to make her life miserable will you be able to handle it or will you have to break off contact with your entire family.
Basically the end question is are you willing to destroy your relationship with your mom, dad and sister for this girl? And honestly 2 months? Seriously? That is not enough time to get to know your pet gerbil.
It is easy to sit in judgement and pass such comments. In arranged marriages you dont even know the other person and still you are willing to take the risk. I can understand the parents’ opposition to the alliance. What I dont understand is the opposition by the people here.