^ Cool signatures about Miami :Salute:
what can I say. I just had some really bad experience when I was there.
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Neeli your not a girl?
Why… Is Neeli is suppose to be girl ^^ 
Leave the poor girl alone, it's ok Neely don't pay attn to them.
I could swear she told me she was a guy.
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*Originally posted by RoCKiSTaN: *
I could swear she told me she was a guy.
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HOW MANY TIMES??????????
Read my signature! Its been there from day one.....
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*Originally posted by Neely: *
HOW MANY TIMES??????????
Read my signature! Its been there from day one.....
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Wait, so you are a guy?
i have to agree with Chorni and proudpakistani.
just letting him keep watching porn without your even letting him know that you strongly disapprove of this habit is not right. its your duty i think as an older cousin to guide him and give him the correct advice. he should know that its something bad which he shouldn't be doing.
in fact i think you should admonish him if you see him doing it again.
i dont believe in the "soft approach" that don't say anything or just let him keep doing what he's doing.
sorry. no. you're his olders and its part of your duty to ensure that he's on the right path.
the first time it should be done in a very sensitive and mature way so as to not scare him or turn him away but the message should clearly be conveyed that he's doing something wrong.
your silence could also be taken as your approval.
besides, i think all this that "he's a guy in his teens he has to watch porn"...i don't agree with this. sorry. watching PORN is WRONG. if Allah swt has made something wrong then obviously he HAS given enough power to human beings to avert that wrong as well, and your cousin should exercise that self restraint.
don't let him keep doing something wrong under your nose and be okay with it.
today he is 13 and he's watching porn. it could get better and he could give it up but it could also get worse. a lot of guys do things that are ten times worse than watching porn too.
so please nip this evil in the bud and try to stop him right now.
good luck :)
It is quite strange that 13 year old girl is interested in pornograghy
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*Originally posted by irem: *
i have to agree with Chorni and proudpakistani.
just letting him keep watching porn without your even letting him know that you strongly disapprove of this habit is not right. its your duty i think as an older cousin to guide him and give him the correct advice. he should know that its something bad which he shouldn't be doing.
in fact i think you should admonish him if you see him doing it again.
i dont believe in the "soft approach" that don't say anything or just let him keep doing what he's doing.
sorry. no. you're his olders and its part of your duty to ensure that he's on the right path.
the first time it should be done in a very sensitive and mature way so as to not scare him or turn him away but the message should clearly be conveyed that he's doing something wrong.
your silence could also be taken as your approval.
besides, i think all this that "he's a guy in his teens he has to watch porn"...i don't agree with this. sorry. watching PORN is WRONG. if Allah swt has made something wrong then obviously he HAS given enough power to human beings to avert that wrong as well, and your cousin should exercise that self restraint.
don't let him keep doing something wrong under your nose and be okay with it.
today he is 13 and he's watching porn. it could get better and he could give it up but it could also get worse. a lot of guys do things that are ten times worse than watching porn too.
so please nip this evil in the bud and try to stop him right now.
good luck :)
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Good advice Irem baji
Quote from Code_Red: It is quite strange that 13 year old girl is interested in pornograghy
Why are some guppies so thick?????????????? Cant they read???
Saari raat koi heer raanjha parhta raha, subah uth kar poochta “Heer lakra tha ya larki?”.
If you don’t see porn will you never have sex 
See old bachelors of GS, (ie 32 and over) this is where you are going wrong
A noble peace prize for you my son :k:
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*Originally posted by RoCKiSTaN: *
Wait, so you are a guy?
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U killed my joke :(
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*Originally posted by hiccup: *
U killed my joke :(
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Dont rule out killing just yet........!!!!!!!
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Who is this girl ?
Neely’s signature says he is not female
Why is so much confusion
There is no confusion - if my signatue says Im not female then that should be sufficient!!!
I can’t beleive we are still discussing this!!!
For the record, I am not female.
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*Originally posted by irem: *
i have to agree with Chorni and proudpakistani.
just letting him keep watching porn without your even letting him know that you strongly disapprove of this habit is not right. its your duty i think as an older cousin to guide him and give him the correct advice. he should know that its something bad which he shouldn't be doing.
in fact i think you should admonish him if you see him doing it again.
i dont believe in the "soft approach" that don't say anything or just let him keep doing what he's doing.
sorry. no. you're his olders and its part of your duty to ensure that he's on the right path.
the first time it should be done in a very sensitive and mature way so as to not scare him or turn him away but the message should clearly be conveyed that he's doing something wrong.
your silence could also be taken as your approval.
besides, i think all this that "he's a guy in his teens he has to watch porn"...i don't agree with this. sorry. watching PORN is WRONG. if Allah swt has made something wrong then obviously he HAS given enough power to human beings to avert that wrong as well, and your cousin should exercise that self restraint.
don't let him keep doing something wrong under your nose and be okay with it.
today he is 13 and he's watching porn. it could get better and he could give it up but it could also get worse. a lot of guys do things that are ten times worse than watching porn too.
so please nip this evil in the bud and try to stop him right now.
good luck :)
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aaahhh, the muslim ummah. Just call it "un-islamic" and that should be enough to help the boy keep away from all the temptations. Allah programmed us to make mistakes. No one is perfect except Muhammad (SWT). Human sexual urges are normal. I can't believe someone can be so ignorant to human nature as to go as far as to embarrass a little boy. He is turning into a man, these sort of things normal for any boy entering into adulthood. ALLAH KAY WASTAY, CUT THE POOR LITTLE KID SOME SLACK.
^ lagta aap ki bauhat dhulai ho chuki hai.
as for what i think, parental monitoring is a very serious business, and all this about he'll find other ways to do it so let it go, this is utter bakwas. if parents are serious and smart enough no 13-yr old twid can get access to porno thru mysterious oter ways.
net, mags, cable and friends are all there is to the game. and this list is not endless neither is it comprehenisve, esp for a 13-yr old oh puleeezzzzzz. its just tat some parents dont really care or are just too inept at parenting. if thats the case then no cousin shusin can do anything. poor parenting is all abt these trashy excuses.
porn-watching by 13-yr-olds, parto f normal growing up, my ass,
what kind of bakwas do ppl come up with!