OMG NEELY!!! Are you a dude or a chic? First you say your a female, now you say your not. Why don't you just tell us????
its a guy! read his responses within this thread.
Good lord.
Sorry Mr. Neely, as many people here are picking on you and you are irritated by that so they are doing it again. Me, Rockistan and others know it. They were just teasing you. Sorry 
As for your cousin, if you are close to him then scold him hard, dont take too long, and let him go with warning (act someone like elder brother). And if you are not close then let it go.
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*Originally posted by Shikra: *
I say just ignore it. Kids at this age are curious. He'll grow up and stop vising porn sites.
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i second the point. we did the same when we were kids, we are not spoiled.
it might sound weired but there is nothing wrong in it.
just make sure that he dont go out of hand.
So hes really a guy?
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*Originally posted by RoCKiSTaN: *
So hes really a guy?
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I suppose its a good way to increase your posts Miss Rockistan...
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Originally posted by ghuLail: *
porn-watching by 13-yr-olds, **parto f normal growing up*, my ass,
what kind of bakwas do ppl come up with!
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ghulail .. let me guess.. u were never a 13 year old boy
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*Originally posted by Neely: *
I suppose its a good way to increase your posts Miss Rockistan...
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Are you going to answer my question?
Neely i dont know why people say that its ok for 13 year old to be watching porn. I dont think that any age is fine to be watching it. Most probably he will grow up fine, but if you dont talk to him and something happens later on you will always think that things might have been different had you talked to him. And since you knew about this initial problem you will be partially responsible. A theif does not start stealing big things. He always starts with small things, and if he is stopped at the right time he will never become a big theif. Even though it is not a big thing from most peoples point of veiw, but i think it is a big deal.
I know that there are certain things that 13 year old are curious about, but this is not the way to learn about them. If watching porn was something that would help him in learning, it would be fine i guess. But if this is what he is doing now, you dont know what he will be doing next. YOu dont want him to learn all this from these websites and try to apply it. Also its important to talk to him about his friends and who he hangs out with. For us (muslims) our best guidance is religion and that is a good way of talking to him and explaining what Islam says about these things and why they are forbidden.
Giving hidayath is in the hands of Allah, but atleast your responsibility will be over once you talk to him.
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*Originally posted by RoCKiSTaN: *
Are you going to answer my question?
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Baji Rukhsana-stani
I cant remember what you asked me.
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*Originally posted by PakistaniAbroad: *
ghulail .. let me guess.. u were never a 13 year old boy
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well........lemme guess .......... u dont really understand what proper parenting involves?
is tarah toa, u might as well have sex too, just cuz all the bad ones are trying it in mid-teens, no? all this abt frat boys n stuff, well it only applies to them no. u can even send a 5-yr-old to a boarding skool, where there is no control over access to such things, then everyone there too will be doing it too there. it will be called normal, cuz it is what everyone is doing. the question however, ultimately boils down to as to how many ppl consider boarding-skool raised children as properly parented.
kis nay kaha its not normal to want to be curious, but 13s too early for a kid to be making his own decisions.
sometimes good parenting even involves raising chidlren different from the mean, and not some normality standard set by peers in te stupid local school round the corner.
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*Originally posted by Neely: *
Baji Rukhsana-stani
I cant remember what you asked me.
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I asked you if your a girl?
Rehanna-stan
you are getting quite obsessed by this matter now - you are starting to scare me...
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*Originally posted by Neely: *
Rehanna-stan
you are getting quite obsessed by this matter now - you are starting to scare me...
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If you'd just answer my question please...
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*Originally posted by RoCKiSTaN: *
If you'd just answer my question please...
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Aunty Ruheela-stani
Havent you got anything better to do with your gupshup time?
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*Originally posted by Neely: *
Aunty Ruheela-stani
Havent you got anything better to do with your gupshup time?
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Maybe if you answered my question...
screw the kid!
So you are not a female ehh,
THEN WHY ?? 
I thought about giving up but then again its not in my culture to give up so easily.
Nelly are you not a girl?
omg dude just leave him alone !!!
neely is a guy!! stop pickin on the poor dude 
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*Originally posted by RoCKiSTaN: *
I thought about giving up but then again its not in my culture to give up so easily.
Nelly are you not a girl?
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You've also lost your ability to spell (neely not nelly)