Porn on my pc

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I dont often post things like this but I need some advice as someone may have been through something similiar.

I allowed a young cousin to use my pc while I was out of the house (they were visiting the family).

When I logged on a few minutes ago, something in my head said check the history - dunno why.

When I did, I noticed a whole load of porn sites had been accessed on my pc (at the time I was out). They were really bad - pretty shocking stuff.

I checked with the family and they said that it was Amir who is 13 - no one else. They dont know what has happened.

I have a good relationship with the boy but I am a bit confused as I dont know what I should do - should I raise the subject with him?

I just dont know what to do or say..

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As a female it may be a touchy subject, can't u get a male cousin to talk to him? :)

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^ Neely is a male?

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*Originally posted by hiccup: *
As a female it may be a touchy subject, can't u get a male cousin to talk to him? :)
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Everytime I post something I get this response!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Look at my signature - its always been there!!!!!! (and dont say its a girls name!

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hahahahahahahahaha

me funny :roman:

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I say just ignore it. Kids at this age are curious. He'll grow up and stop vising porn sites.

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Neely dude

I have had similar experiences.

One of my young cousins used to come to my house and played with nintendos (then game & watch) and amiga, and read my comic books. He is all grown up now. One day the discussion veered towards his frat life. After listening to a few "incidents", I decided to change the subject. He was not my little cousin anymore. He is a young man. He has done more than just look at porn.

Your cousin is 13, and to men that age porn is a rite of passge.

Let it go.

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Re: Porn on my pc

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Neely: *
I dont often post things like this but I need some advice as someone may have been through something similiar.

I allowed a young cousin to use my pc while I was out of the house (they were visiting the family).

When I logged on a few minutes ago, something in my head said check the history - dunno why.

When I did, I noticed a whole load of porn sites had been accessed on my pc (at the time I was out). They were really bad - pretty shocking stuff.

I checked with the family and they said that it was Amir who is 13 - no one else. They dont know what has happened.

I have a good relationship with the boy but I am a bit confused as I dont know what I should do - should I raise the subject with him?

I just dont know what to do or say..
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If i were you...Right now...Leave him,yes,he is going through the curious age of puberty...

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Leave him alone. Poor kid will get embarrased and never own up to it. Plus, all young guys are curious and go through this phase, which lasts FOREVER anyways :)

Boys will be boys...there aint anything one can do to change that.

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BEAT HIM!!!!!! TELL HIM YOU WILL KILL HIM IF HE EVER VISITED A PORN SITE AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oh and is Neely a man or a woman?

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You should put a parental control on your computer. I don't know if you should talk to him about this but the problem is that just like cigarette once you watch it, you get addicted to it.

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Re: Porn on my pc

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Neely: *
I dont often post things like this but I need some advice as someone may have been through something similiar.

I allowed a young cousin to use my pc while I was out of the house (they were visiting the family).

When I logged on a few minutes ago, something in my head said check the history - dunno why.

When I did, I noticed a whole load of porn sites had been accessed on my pc (at the time I was out). They were really bad - pretty shocking stuff.

I checked with the family and they said that it was Amir who is 13 - no one else. They dont know what has happened.

I have a good relationship with the boy but I am a bit confused as I dont know what I should do - should I raise the subject with him?

I just dont know what to do or say..
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It wouldn't be right if you said it to him. Get a guy to say it.

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sure he is going threw a curious phase, but that doesnt make it right for him to do such things. how will he respect women & not look @ any lady without thinking improper thoughts. i think if you dont talk to him it will just lead to problems later in life, so if you care abt him, you should DEFINITELY TALK TO HIM.

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Who cares what this 13 year old boy is thinking, I would be more concerned about sterilizing keyboard and chair.

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how many times does he have to say this. NEELY IS A GUY!!! :rotfl: :rotfl:

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by the way, cut the kid some slack. We all did it one time or another. Any guy that says he hasn't is either gay or really gay.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by fallenpieta: *
BEAT HIM!!!!!! TELL HIM YOU WILL KILL HIM IF HE EVER VISITED A PORN SITE AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oh and is Neely a man or a woman?
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Finally the answer I was looking for - lolzzzzzzzzzz.

And yes, I am a guy not a girl!

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^ yeah that’s it - just threaten to beat the crap outa him. I’m sure the next time he has an opportunity, he’s really going to be expecting you to jump into the room and clobber him.

:k:

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PCG

I was joking!!

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^^ So wait are you a guy?