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omg thats so gross. imagine old, fat bearded guys watching porn. DISGUSTING.
whats even worse is that gujuranwala is the # one citie, and im from there. ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww just the thought grosses me out.
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STP - bro, seriously, your posts should be written in Gold. Jazakallah khair!
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Brother AQ and brother cricketplaya,
The words in my post are not even 0.1% my own or reflection of myself. I feel guilty because most of my words are either heard from religious scholars or copy pasted from some saints words. I just wish to become wise like them, but in reality till now my deeds and character have no worth. The Prophet (Saw) strictly disallowed us from disclosing our deeds or to disgrace ourselves, otherwise I would tell my reality. IF the book of my deeds is opened I won't be able to show my face to anyone in the universe. I only share such copy pasted stuff to correct myself that may be reading it again and again might have a bit affect on my own character and save me from fire of hell...the only hope with which I am living is that Allah would forgive me. Words of encouragement from honorable and pious people like you two means a lot to a hypocrite whose intense desire is to become good Muslim like you two.
Need your prayers..
I would not be okay with it when it comes to my husband.....I believe its very disrespectful and wouldnt be happy if he watched it...however, others can do what they want but they have to watch where they are.
Yesterday I was at work doing my work and I could see this client from my office window......the computer he was using could be seen very clearly from my angle. I caught him watching porn out in open:o there was no one there at the front but he was fully aware of the fact that we had all the staff present in there offices. It really bothered me but I didnt know how to react to it and there was NO WAY I was going to go ask him to stop watching. It all happened very fast though....right when I caught him and was thinking what the hell....one of my co-workers came to the front....when the client heard noise he tried closing the web page but the freakin computer got FROZEN!!!! he had to shut the monitor off and he got extremely nervous........how disgusting is that??? was he stupid to do that out in open or what
and I know people who have never been involved in these activities throughout their lives. Alhamdulillah.
r u sureee..?..hmmm..have u been with htese ppl every second of thier life?...how do u know when theyr alone they dont play with themselves?...how do u know that when no one is looking and when they get the chance they dont watch porn..?...pleez dont say things u cannot be 100% sure of and then say alhamdulillah..
r u sureee..?..hmmm..have u been with htese ppl every second of thier life?...how do u know when theyr alone they dont play with themselves?...how do u know that when no one is looking and when they get the chance they dont watch porn..?...pleez dont say things u cannot be 100% sure of and then say alhamdulillah..
*Oh no, long beards and oonchay pajamay are all you need to judge a man's character. How dare you question the integrity of the so called people STP is talking about.
Biological fact: Every man with a set of functional testicles gets sexually aroused. Sorry to burst your bubble, Uncle STP.*
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r u sureee..?..hmmm..have u been with htese ppl every second of thier life?...how do u know when theyr alone they dont play with themselves?...how do u know that when no one is looking and when they get the chance they dont watch porn..?...pleez dont say things u cannot be 100% sure of and then say alhamdulillah..
Alright, even if I don't trust the people who claim of not being involved in these two acts through out their lives, I can at least speak for the person whose each and every second I myself know and am 100% sure of it. YES he has not been involved in these activities throughout his life. Perhaps people who themselves are never involved in such acts usually find it is easier to trust other people's claim, because they know it is not impossible to avoid such acts in life.
*Oh no, long beards and oonchay pajamay are all you need to judge a man's character. How dare you question the integrity of the so called people STP is talking about.
Biological fact: Every man with a set of functional testicles gets sexually aroused. Sorry to burst your bubble, Uncle STP.*
Sexually aroused is different, controlling oneself is different. It is not necessary that every person who was sexually aroused did actually choose to become part of such acts. Brother let us not judge people on the basis of clean shaved or long beard. The right of Judgment doesn't belong to human being but only Allah can judge about people. What we can do is to keep our own "Daman" clean and be positive about others.
Well, I am not disappointed. I already knew that "*Every man with a set of functional testicles gets sexually aroused" *But I also know from experience that Allah bless us with strength to control oneself from forbidden acts.
p.s. If the picture in your Avatar is of your self, then we are in the same age group, so it is alright even if you are comfortable calling me brother.
Eyes are door to the heart and mind. If we keep this door open to all the dirt and impurities, they would enter our mind and heart through our eyes and pollute them. A polluted mind would always fancy immoral (forbidden) acts and a polluted heart would insist us to act upon them.
[Surah Noor 24:30] **Command the Muslim men to keep their gaze low and to protect their private organs; that is much purer for them; indeed Allah is Aware of their deeds.
** We all know that "MEN" are aroused, but to say that it is impossible to control one's temptations without porn is actually blaming the ultimate Lord. Why would Allah (s.w.t) disallow something and not bless us with the capability and strength to avoid it ? This capability is developed through the teachings of the Prophet (saw) as I mentioned the hadiths in post # 95.
Paindoos you dnt knw wht porn is ? 
its a short term of pop corn 
Eyes are door to the heart and mind. If we keep this door open to all the dirt and impurities, they would enter our mind and heart through our eyes and pollute them. A polluted mind would always fancy immoral (forbidden) acts and a polluted heart would insist us to act upon them.
[Surah Noor 24:30] **Command the Muslim men to keep their gaze low and to protect their private organs; that is much purer for them; indeed Allah is Aware of their deeds.
** We all know that "MEN" are aroused, but to say that it is impossible to control one's temptations without porn is actually blaming the ultimate Lord. Why would Allah (s.w.t) disallow something and not bless us with the capability and strength to avoid it ? This capability is developed through the teachings of the Prophet (saw) as I mentioned the hadiths in post # 95.
I agree. Natural urges should not be seen as an excuse for some behavior. That's why I said that though I understand the curiosity and the urges, that doesn't make it okay. And just because one may have transgressed in the past, doesn't mean one can't use some willpower in the present and the future.
Also, though they may be related, masturbating and watching porn are not the same thing.
I thought bro STP made it quite clear about getting married at a young age or after reaching the age of puberty though he never mentioned any number like 9-14, anyway, in Islam getting married at an early age is only an option and not a religious law and it cannot be done without girl's permission.
I think both non-muslims and muslims girls reach puberty at 9-13, whatever he was trying to say, he was advocating 'child marriage' by saying he personally believes they should be married when they reach puberty.
I think both non-muslims and muslims girls reach puberty at 9-13, whatever he was trying to say, he was advocating 'child marriage' by saying he personally believes they should be married when they reach puberty.
If the girl herself wants to get married then why not? I wanted to get married when I was 13 and I wasn't a child like others girls, I was mentally mature and I needed security as my parents were passed away.
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Who cares....people want to watch it, go for it, never hurt anybody.
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^ I remember reading somewhere a few years ago a study that said that many of the rapes and abuses to prisoners of war in Bosnia reflected the snuff films and violent pornography that was popular in the region.
Who cares....people want to watch it, go for it, never hurt anybody.
If a Muslim commits a sin like this, it might not apparently hurt him or people around him, but it is the most hurting act for the one who had to go through a lot of pain for us.
Let us not do such sins and hence not hurt the feelings of the Prophet (saw).
^ I remember reading somewhere a few years ago a study that said that many of the rapes and abuses to prisoners of war in Bosnia reflected the snuff films and violent pornography that was popular in the region.
True. The product of every machinery is dependent on the input that we feed into it. If we consistently feed such stuff in our mind, a time would come when we won't be able to resist the temptation to practice it.
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i think, watching Porn is healthy! :D
I guess you haven't seen the videos of guys and girls making out while watching porn in net cafes. Do some search on youtube and you'll come across many videos. Not all guys are desperate for porn and not all girls are innocent. Stop generalizing.
i second that, i know,few girls from school addicted to Porn. and yes i am talking about Pakistani High School ;)
well google “Pakistani MMS” and surprise yourself..
True. The product of every machinery is dependent on the input that we feed into it. If we consistently feed such stuff in our mind, a time would come when we won't be able to resist the temptation to practice it.
^Very true
ghalat ko ghalak kehne key liye you need more strength..
giving in to the 'ghalat' is a sign of weakness.....your inner self has given up by killing your conscious...which is why you fail to recognize what is wrong and what is right.....for you there are no boundaries...hence you cannot differentiate between the two...sometimes you have to accept the fact that life CAN be black and white.
just because temptation is easily accessible...literally..at your fingertips....does it mean we give in???
its 'cool' to reject the sahi...and adopt the ghalat, just because the ghalat has worn a blanket of 'coolness'................
if you present the argument that 'porn' has been around for centuries....then you should know..that Iblees has been around longer....so DUH....your argument doesnt validate porn.
May Allah guide us to the sahi....and guard our minds against the ghalat...Ameen!!!