there is no difference whether u do love marriage or arranged..In the end, its just a marriage,its the same for everyone..how many of you agree with it esp, those who had love marriages???..and if itz the case then y do still people take up so much opposition,fights,risks(in some cases) for doing love marriages when people say there is no difference?
Personally i think, if u get married to whom u love, u remain satisfied the whole life that u r with someone u had loved otherwise aik hasrat reh jaat hai…but still i dunno if itz true…views needed…
i have two sisters, one had love marriage and the other had arranged......the only difference between them is that when something goes wrong with the love marriage sis she can't blame anyone but with the arrange marriage sis she blames parents outright. In the end, both are happyily married for 15+ years.
Arranged marriage is for boys who rely on parents for everything. Schooling, tuition, cars, even finding a decent job...
The real task at hand is to find the prettiest girl, the one you think is impossible to get; way beyond your league and go after her with a strong zeal! Make her fall in love with you and convince her to marry you and keep her happy! When you do that, you can finally call yourself a man and have no regrets!
There is no difference in the manner which the marriage is conducted. But there is a very big difference in the way the marriage function. Love marriages as desis call them basically means the couple know each other well enough before the marriage to start the life. While in an arranged marriage they start from scratch.
Arranged marriage is for boys who rely on parents for everything. Schooling, tuition, cars, even finding a decent job...
The real task at hand is to find the prettiest girl, the one you think is impossible to get; way beyond your league and go after her with a strong zeal! Make her fall in love with you and convince her to marry you and keep her happy! When you do that, you can finally call yourself a man and have no regrets!
Arranged marriage is for boys who rely on parents for everything. Schooling, tuition, cars, even finding a decent job...
The real task at hand is to find the prettiest girl, the one you think is impossible to get; way beyond your league and go after her with a strong zeal! Make her fall in love with you and convince her to marry you and keep her happy! When you do that, you can finally call yourself a man and have no regrets!
Are you saying that love marrige is for those guys who don't rely on thier parents for education, job etc?
Both have same result. Same destination. Arrange marriage takes u to the destination in Train where you have less say over where to stop and enjoy the journey but its safest. Love marriage is driving by yourself. You can enjoy the journey as much as you want to but its a journey through mountains and ditches, a more dangerous one.
Both have same result. Same destination. Arrange marriage takes u to the destination in Train where you have less say over where to stop and enjoy the journey but its safest. Love marriage is driving by yourself. You can enjoy the journey as much as you want to but its a journey through mountains and ditches, a more dangerous one.
Dangerous = exciting/thrilling/satisfying and most importantly your own way :P
Dangerous = exciting/thrilling/satisfying and most importantly your own way :P
Yup. and although having wheel in your hand give you kinda satisfaction but Having own way is not fun every-time. Sometimes people do get lost and never reach to destination.
Yup. and although having wheel in your hand give you kinda satisfaction but Having own way is not fun every-time. Sometimes people do get lost and never reach to destination.
Arranged marriage is for boys who rely on parents for everything. Schooling, tuition, cars, even finding a decent job...
The real task at hand is to find the prettiest girl, the one you think is impossible to get; way beyond your league and go after her with a strong zeal! Make her fall in love with you and convince her to marry you and keep her happy! When you do that, you can finally call yourself a man and have no regrets!
haha Salman and I had arranged marriage I should bring this to his attention!
So what exactly is so exciting in love marriage that isn't in arranged marriage? The end product of marriage depends on the people that are married to each other and how exciting they make their marriage to be.. not if you had arranged marriage or love marriage!
Personally i think, if u get married to whom u love, u remain satisfied the whole life that u r with someone u had loved otherwise aik hasrat reh jaat hai...but still i dunno if itz true...views needed...:)
I use to think the same but then the guilt factors come in much more. If God forbid your marriage fails you dont know who to turn to or who to blame cuz in most love marriages you have gone against yr family wishes. And apparently the divorce rate in love marriage is higher so i dont know what to believe or not to believe.
Anyway, i had personally prefer an arrange marriage but ofcourse nt a blind one.
