PLZ HELP ME

As far as i know if u visit Uk (On visit visa) more than 2 times then u can get the next visa for 2-3yrs and also there is a possibility of u can getting a permanent visa after that period has finished.

Em goona start uni in 2010 Sep inshAllah n my course will take max of 4 yrs
N we r not planning to get married until ma edu is complete
He has applied 4 a job but not heard anything YET..........

I have no intrest in any other guy because i ONLY love HIM n i know hez gona prove himself a very good husband inshAllah

I understand what ur saying but we have met thousand of timeS n i know him very well............I have met his family aswell

SO WHAT to do now :)?
How can i convince him and his familY?