Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument
I think your problems go deeper than just not emptying trash bins on time. What I understand from your post is that he would like you to clean the kitchen as soon as possible instead of your own timeline. Bins too should be empty when he fills these are almost full, while you might think they still have room. I guess for big decisions you mean that for example whether she should go to public or private school should be a joint decision while what you should cook for her today should be yours alone. Your husband seems like a very management oriented person and likes things neat and streamlined.
Think of an office where things are under control mostly, that’s how he would like to see it. Try and organize yourself so that you have ample time to clean up after each meal, empty bins when these are three fourths full instead of to the brim, make sure baby is fed, neat and clean when he comes home and you also look presentable. Don’t ask him for advice for each and every thing and try to be proactive.
I hope I don’t sound completely clueless but proactive how? In the ways you’ve suggested? Like be more organised and quicker in the things I do? Thank you for your suggestions and advice I really appreciate it. He’s also ignoring me and being quite cold at the minute. Should I just focus on fixing this and just let him come around?