I have come across so many guys on this forum & otherwise too who seems to be okay with girl’s past while they themselves don’t have any. Whats with this guys? 
You don’t mind girl sleeping around? Or is it some new thing in to look cool?
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will that be yr first question to ask girls if they hv been sleeping with others before? Just asking 
Yes, to me, a past is a past. They might hv slept with someone before but its all cool if she has moved on and decides to stick with you from here onwards. Now wuts wrong with me for adopting this approach? I’m not sure, i’ll leave it to you to judge 
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Its not cool. There is always a limit to which I can overlook. I would overlook sleeping around if she is good in all regards and truly regrets it. But hanging out with guys is not a big deal .. who doesn’t hangout when they are single?
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There is a bigger problem then girl having a past.
That girls are never wrong and they never do any thing wrong, that even when they are doing some thing wrong.
So they can do all that and still be fairy princess, who is going alter a little what is right and wrong. And just to justify her own life she is going to teach next generation to do so.
Now if on other hand girl did mistake and repent old fashion islamic way, then I can leave it between her and her creator.
PS: sorry long weekend… 
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You folks seem so cool about all this sleeping around thing. So girls who are saving themselves for their husbands are just wasting their time? Is it because you guys think that majority of girls will be like this so why not be all flexible about this? Wouldn’t that bug you guys that she has been with you don’t know how many guys before?
Whats with so much of flexibility? I don’t get it.
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The ones saving them selves, are like queens… best of the creatures.
We be thank full to God for finding one.
And its no flexibility… if Allah Willis other kind for us… Then so be it.
We have make best of what we are given.
PS: tubelight you reminded me I have to go buy that soft while light bulb for my lamp…but every thing is closed.
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A girl who is openly admitting that she slept with someone is better than a girl who is saying she never did but actually lying.
My point is, you dont know wut she had been upto.. so why bother digging the past so much and ask these wierd questions that may make her uncomfortable but also make yr future life rotten. Cuz your later life with her will be full of suspicions after all these “sleeping with” questionnaires.
Trust me, there are much better things to discuss with yr future hone-wali.. go for that!
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Nope, those girls are not wasting their time. Most guys I know who haven’t slept around, will only marry a similar girl who hasn’t slept around either. The point being if they have waited, she should have to. At the end of the day it depends on the individual and their circumstances. One can only speak for themselves..
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In other regards? like education, looks etc. So all in all material things matter but morals don’t.
If it was a mistake, she repents & regrets it then that’s understandable but if she has done that more than once then ofcourse that’s her habit not a mistake.
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‘So many guys’
Really?
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^ no girls please. 
We can figure out things.
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dude , you hv to always leave these matters between she and her creator. Who are you to judge?
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true.
In a way I am saying a girl who does not have connection with her creator is no no for me.
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well if you have dated, you would know how many weirdos you have to go through to get to the person who DoEs nawt type like dis. And after that education, social aspect etc. all that matters. So yea I would overlook that if I feel she truly regrets her action and has become a better person now. But most of them not really regret so I won’t even give them a chance.
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Only insecure guys have an issue with this. Unless she a size queen (less then 10% in my experience) you shouldn’t have any issue as long you read a certain Indian manuscript!
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Bhai jan what is a “size queen”? 
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Can’t answer that question, was warned by a mod last week for posting too many sexual innuendos and crude jokes/remarks. Google is your best bet!
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THIS GUY IS CHRISTAIN GRAY.
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Do u really think boys will disclose their past on an online forum.
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Past does not necessarily mean sleeping around. There might be a genuine involvement with someone that did not work for whatever reason.