Passwords n Trust

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well.. I would like 2 give my passwords 2 my hubby but Im little scared,...
he is very shaaki mizaaj (suspected kind of person) thats why Im little afraid,..
I know his passwords n stuff n I know that he must be thinking that I dont trust him, dont want give my passwords 2 him bcuz of trust or something,.. but the main problem is I do trust but he is suspected larka and do a lot of sharartayand the other main thing is I got mail from friends n stuff and I dont share my friends secrets with my hubby.
but I hope he´ll understand soon.

No, its because I dont want it to be a point of contention in future if something happens. I like to avoid conflict. smile

thts the whole point ..
i think (every one has right to differ) we shud live for moment .....
rather then thinking abt ....... wat if we wont remain frnds later

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well the only other person who has my password is my fiance n i have his buh i dont check anything of his n he dont check anything of myne buh i would never give my password to a friend regardless of how close they r this is because like some one said friends can turn into foes n it can cause too much problems

cadet, for me its a matter of privacy. I really dont know why a friend needs to give me their password. They should give it to a family member first. That's just how I see it. But yes, I do like to avoid future conflict.

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my friend once gave me the password to her email account so i cud access a particular email in there, since her net wasnt working and she cudnt forward the mail to me. i just checkd that particular email and logged out. i dont have her password saved anywhere

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Have you or will you ever give a password to any kind of online account to someone close to you? Be it bestfriend, fiance, husband?
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I can't think of giving it to a friend but maybe to wife or a sibling.

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What if they get tempted enough and they access your account and somehow you find out about it, what then? Will you be hurt that they broke your trust? What will be your course of action after this piece of information?
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If my wife does read my emails or messages, I wouldn't really mind.

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Lastly, what if someone trusted you with a password and you, behind their back, access their account and read all the private messages and/or emails. How will you feel? Guilty or Not Guilty? and Why?
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If I knew they didn't want me to read their stuff, then I'd feel guilty about it.

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Passwords is there for a reason. For your accounts, and for privacy...why would you want to share it with someone? Especially a friend? And I don't blame them, everyone falls for temptation...there you are with your buddies password to her emails and msn, wouldn't you just want a peak inside it? Exactly, that's why I don't ask my family or friends for their password and neither would I give mine to anyone because I wouldn't blame them if they got tempted to open it.

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One thing to keep in your mind NEVER hand over your weaknesses to anyone in your life, not even to your closedones. First I don't think your lovedones would demand you to give your passwords to them and even they do then you should be strong and kind enough to deal with them, there's nothing wrong with it.

It's not all about to hide your secrets, but you have Emails that are consist of some secrets of OTHERS. You can tell your OWN secrets to your closedones but you can't be dishonest to the other people by leaking out their secrets infront of your own lovedones. If your account is disclosed and your tyrust is broken then it would be your fault bacause mostly a person is responsible for his own actions.

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Aisha, I'm with most people here, I wouldn't share my password with anyone. My wife knows some of my passwords but she's my wife, I have nothing to hide from her, she can go and read my emails or peak in my social networking sites till the cows come home, I really don't care. Obviously she doesn't know my work/enterprise passwords because I have very highly elevated privileges at work and with that comes the responsibility of guarding those accesses, not that she wants to get into my firewall at work and open up ports.

I know her password(s) and I really don't have the time or the inclination to 'spy' on her, again, because she's my wife and I trust her. Now, with that said, she does troll through my emails to respond to her social obligations. When people send me invites for various things, I 'neglect' to tell her so we don't have to go :D, but if she finds it, she commits us, blah! Maybe I SHOULD change my PW and not tell her!

The only time I've given a friend a password was to my fantasy football account on yahoo sports because I was going to be on the road during the draft and I wanted to make sure I got the right players, but that was it. I also practice secure password strategies, different passwords for different sites.

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A word of advice, when you break up with your bf/gf/biwi/khawandh, make sure to change your passwords ASAP! lol

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Spock that is a good piece of advice lol

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A couple of my friends give me their password and we check something outr that they may want an opinion on.I forget about what it was after that. SOme of my family menbers know about mine..no biggie ..My accounts have boring stuff there..so no one will be or is tempted to read...if they want to they can be my guest:D

I love and trust my friends but I never gave my passwords to them nor did they ever gave their's to me. Trust is another thing and one's personal space and privacy is another. A for spouse's we both know each others passwords/pins/codes and logging in to each other's account is no big deal for us.

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ive given my passwrds to my fiancee to be n i dun get mad at him wen he cheks my mail cuz nuthing iz hidden from him...i mean he doesnt chek my e-mail cuz he has sum shak on me...its just lyk if i cant access my account for sum odd rezon he cheks it for me n tells me if sumthing iz impostant...same goes wid him...

Ditto!

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My friend has my facebook password. I do not mind as we are very close. I once gave my friend my pin number to my card, she needed money. I however have known them for ages, and do think that they would not break my trust. I have my friend's password for her facebook.

I do think I am too trusting at times but I now am very cautious about who I share personal details with, let alone passwords etc

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At school, I knew all of my friends login passwords as we often had to use each others accounts if something was wrong with ours.. but really, that was no big deal. It was the school computer and there was nothing so private on there anyhow. However, I don't give my friends or family any other password and I don't ask for theres either. I mean yes, you may trust them, but do they really need to know your passwords and stuff when it has nothing to do with them? Nope.

Any seinfeld buffs out there? Remember the episode where George refuses to share his PIN with his girlfriend? that was one of the episodes ever!

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I wouldn't mind giving my password to anyone even to strangers cause I don't get any mails that I have to hide to anyone.

If I would give my password and if that person access my account and read my mails then I won't mind too because I myself gave him/her password.

Guilty or not it doesn't matter.

My brothers passwords and everything with my 2 cousins. When My sister started to live with my brothers they asked to have common password to her account. After sometimes when I started to live with my brother they asked me to have common password.

I said why would I make common password then my brother replied that my other sister had same password too. I said she can't do bank stuff so she is dependent on you but I'm not.

We brother and sisters know each other we take care of each others stuff. but my mom told me about my cousins who wer living with us that my mom lost many things.

So I didn't share my password. What happened once my sister was in hospital she gave her purse to my mom. When she asked my mom for her purse my mom looked in her room she didn't find her purse.

When my sister got statement 400 Euro was missing from her account. After few months her purse was found under my moms bed.

She was saying I'll try to find out........I said leave it cause we all know who thief is. Just leave it on Allah cause what if you will find your bhabhi did it. Would you be able to do or say anything. She said no.

I saw my bhabhi choring money. Musjid kay daynay walay paisay chori kar kay kha jati thi.
1 of my cousin is my bhabhi.

My brother can't keep any money at home cause she steals all of it. my Whole family knows but we can't do anything. They just say don't keep your money at home.