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Good analysis Sahar. I also see some form of postpartum stress in this thread..Perhaps?
nope.not stress. too much free time me thinks and not activly using my brain-which is why anyone would spend time here then i guess. NOT because they are stressed. ( which would defeat the purpose of being stressed )
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awww I checked this thread just because nadz posted. I thought she may have some new evil parenting story about a couple that continued to have crazy animal style action even though they could hear their poor little baby choking to death.
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awww I checked this thread just because nadz posted. I thought she may have some new evil parenting story about a couple that continued to have crazy animal style action even though they could hear their poor little baby choking to death.
lol.
okkkkkkk.
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i wish i had the 2 fingr salute as an icon to show here. as well as some sort of laughing out loud one. unfort my smilys dont seem to work. and your right, your not qualified to analysis anyone. AND i can provide a room if i so wish for my child. i wish not to. didnt you get this point from my threads.
Just thought I'd provide you with a dignified explanation for your comments.
And no, your posts suggest that you DO NOT at the moment have the means to provide a separate space for your child. And there's nothing wrong with that.
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It's scary to know that some of you who have posted here are actually PARENTS!! :s
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Its personal choice really.
One of my sis has always kept her kids in seperate rooms since their birth.
2nd sis son is 2 yrs old, always slept in the cot which is in their bedroom, and i mean still it is in their bedroom.
3rd is my number and i dont have kids yet coz i am not married 
But i think i ll keep my baby with me at least for first year. Naya naya shoq hoga na 
- But then again who knows i ll like the baby to be in separate room from the begining. :halo:
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Its personal choice totally my kids slept in crib when I reached home from hospital.And I moved them in another room when they were 12 mnths.
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if kids sleep with their parents/in same room....they will be more attached to their parents as well and more love between parents and child.
putting them in a different room is like neglecting them....and they would probably remember that all their life...and would probably grow up and neglect the parents too...as thats what they would be taught from such a young age....no wonder so many kids in the west have depression and also feel all alone and not loved..
i **personally **think its cruel to separate them at such a young age....poor little kids i feel sorry for them..
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^ And where is your evidence for the general depression of Western children? And where is the basis to suggest that this is somehow related to where they sleep?
In addition, how does sleeping in the same room = love?
Wow, I don't know why I am still wasting my time.
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this thread has become useless now!! No point stopping here anymore.
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are you blind. seriously.
did you not read what my reply was in response to.
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someone said that if baby sleeps early on, itl be easier for later life. she mentioned that someone she knows has a 4yr old that slept in the same room as her, and now wont move into his own room, i gave her the other side. where my own neices and nephews happily went into their own rooms even though they slept in their parents room until they were 5.**
Pardon me but I never mentioned any four year old having a hard time sleeping in a separate room. Your response was for something else that I posted & actually did not relate in any way to what I wrote.
Also I don't know if you notice what you posted. The article that you are referring to makes it pretty clear that although the child slept in a separate room, the fact that he was sick & sleeping in with his parents he survived. What does that sum up to. Earlier in the thread I mentioned my own daughter who had an infection & was sleeping with us. We recently moved her back to her own room. Its been tough on us since now she now has to fall asleep in our arms or our bed & then we put her in her room.
That means that wherever a child is sleeping does not matter as long as your parental instincts are working fine & always.
As Sahar mentioned monitors are sensitive enough that you can even hear your child breathing.
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was watching the geo morning show, where shaista had some experts on baby on the show...cant remember what they were called, they come on weekly on a tuesday.....anyway all 3 said that babies should sleep with their parents in same room ATLEAST for 12 months..thats ATLEAST.....and they gave reasons for that. not one gave ANY reason for the child to be seperated even after2 years.and shaista even joked yeh to daddi wali soch hai.....which she got a really smart response from the panel....:] one of the panel was an actress, cant rem her name..anyone else watch it?shaista also said she doesnt give her girl proper food yet as she doesnt eat it, so she mixes egg with milk..( eww) and the panel said tum khilaogi to woh kaygi nabachey pehda kar dete hum, yeh ahsaan kaam hai, unko paalna mushkil hai. we just shove them in the next room and dont dedicate enough time for them,so if they are not eating, we give up after 10 mins...etc
the panellist said there have been countless times babies must have and have wanted/become ill/something happened, but parents especially rich parents in pak-( because they can afford sep rooms), have kept them apart and havent noticed. some times you can go into a deep sleep and no monitor in the world can wake u.its happned as she mentioned. now im not an expert, but she is. and she said it was wrong. so who the hell am i huh?
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One of the experts on the panel was an actress...??
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shaista also said she doesnt give her girl proper food yet as she doesnt eat it, so she mixes egg with milk..( eww) and the panel said tum khilaogi to woh kaygi nabachey pehda kar dete hum, yeh ahsaan kaam hai, unko paalna mushkil hai. we just shove them in the next room and dont dedicate enough time for them,so if they are not eating, we give up after 10 mins...etc
And can you believe it? Some mothers -- even the ones who are sitting around at home without any other responsibilities -- still don't take the time and energy to nurse their children. They just shove bottles in their mouths and give them formula with god-knows-what in it. It keeps them alive, yes. But it is no replacement for mother's milk. It's one thing if you're working or have lots of household responsibilities, but these days these mothers aren't even willing to sacrifice a little time and energy to nurse. What horrible parents!
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^ Sadly I think your sarcasm is gonna go over some peoples heads..i can already picture hte next screaming baby tantrum thread
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sorry, guys. I promise, I am just trying to make a point.
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^ :k:
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hahaha sahar…looks like you spoke everyone’s mind! :k:
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Nadz, what would u consider roughly the right sort of age to move the kid out of the parent's room?
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On original post, do whatever you feel like. Even putting them in separate room is ok if you have proper monitoring equipment.
Our kids slept in our room in their own crib from 6-12 months and then we moved them out.