Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
And can you believe it? Some mothers -- even the ones who are sitting around at home without any other responsibilities -- still don't take the time and energy to nurse their children. They just shove bottles in their mouths and give them formula with god-knows-what in it. It keeps them alive, yes. But it is no replacement for mother's milk. It's one thing if you're working or have lots of household responsibilities, but these days these mothers aren't even willing to sacrifice a little time and energy to nurse. What horrible parents!
ha ha, nadz wont acknowledge this reply, just as she ignored my breastfeeding comment a few pages back.
Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
And can you believe it? Some mothers -- even the ones who are sitting around at home without any other responsibilities -- still don't take the time and energy to nurse their children. They just shove bottles in their mouths and give them formula with god-knows-what in it. It keeps them alive, yes. But it is no replacement for mother's milk. It's one thing if you're working or have lots of household responsibilities, but these days these mothers aren't even willing to sacrifice a little time and energy to nurse. What horrible parents!
your right. and i agree. whats your point? did i say your a horrible parent, and did i say that i was differentiating myself for what was said to shaista. it was a point made on a show and i agreed to all of it. they say breastfeeding until 6months is a must, did i say that they were wrong in syaing that just because i dont. and how can you compare to a baby being breast fed day and night and still not it being enough and WITH THE RECOMMENDATION FROM THE MIDWIFE was told to top with formula...and stick to it....theres a difference to just shoving them in the next room. wheres the comparison, you talk as if WHOEVER bottlefeeds doesnt try to breast feed first. im talking of parents who SHOVE NEWBORNS in the next room, whats the need? apart from some sexy time for the parents....
Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
SAHAR- i like the way you ignored my entire post and only took the bit i just added in for fun, where the panelist was poking fun at shaista..it didnt mean anything. my ewww was for the egg and milk mix....
Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
nadz,
I mostly nursed, but I did supplement with formula. My post was sarcastic. There are lots of good reasons for mothers to formula feed, and I know a lot of very good mothers who do/did. I won't pass judgement on their parenting based on that one fact.
I don't believe putting a child in another room is a sign of bad parenting. There are lots of ways to be an alert, attentive, and caring parent.
Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
SAHAR- i like the way you ignored my entire post and only took the bit i just added in for fun, where the panelist was poking fun at shaista..it didnt mean anything. my ewww was for the egg and milk mix....
jesus.
It just invalidated the logic of your point. You don't listen to these (nameless) experts but pass judgement on others?
Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
No. It was something else. I wonder if I even clicked right after writing it.
What I was saying was that isn't this the same Shaista who has been recently promoting botox & cosmetic surgeries on her show.
This is not to offend nadz but I seriously think she needs a proper person to communicate too. I see so much rigidness in her posts & the fact that she is a parent now there is going to be numerous times when she comes across things she doesn't approve of or deem right. Being hostile on an online forum might not make much of a difference to her but in real life this could turn up against her & people who might otherwise be willing to be good friends with her might try to cut off from her because of such rigid thinking.
Also as parents we have learn to be able to argue constructively, otherwise what are we going to teach our kids later on.
Re: parents who put their newborns to slp in another room is WRONG.
I think nadzzz likes to pass on judgments on others and offend them JUST FOR FUN. How nice!
I don't think it's for fun, I think she has low self esteem and feels inadequate. Coming here and judging others parenting makes her feel like she is a good mother. It's sad really most of her posts on this thread are erratic and lack reasoning, she should give herself and other mothers a break.