Whats the balance? 99:1? 
If its DIY then I believe u 
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*Originally posted by Seedha Saada: *
So sad na! I ve heard they are wild in their beds as much as goris are ;)
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haha! SS tu kabhi naheen sudhray ga :p
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haha! SS tu kabhi naheen sudhray ga :p
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Un ko kaho na sudhrein..mere sudharne se kia hoga? aur btw in maamlon mein un ko bhee na kahna ke sudhrein...afterall we have one life to live ;)
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*Originally posted by Seedha Saada: *
Un ko kaho na sudhrein..mere sudharne se kia hoga? aur btw in maamlon mein un ko bhee na kahna ke sudhrein...afterall we have one life to live ;)
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aap apni unnko kahyee ga ke sudhrain. Hum kyun kahain. Hamara concern thodi hai :)
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aap apni unnko kahyee ga ke sudhrain.
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:whistling
phewwww
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Hum kyun kahain. Hamara concern thodi hai :)
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Aap ka concern kahan hai? Mein aapke unko aane wale dinon kee naveed de doon ;)
why not!! i used to massage my ami's(and sometimes abu) head and feet when she had headaches or feet-aches, then why not for my better half :-D massaging the feet wasn't the best part :-/ and i always had to ask: did u wash them!! :-D
it actually feels very good that you can actually make a person relax though u get tired soon....:-D i remember we also bought an electric massager which makes it easier for the person who is giving it but i guess its not very effective for the person who is being massaged since i ended up using my hands anywazzz :-D.
and yeah did i mention in return i had my back scratched(for lack of a better word) hehe...trust me guys its sooo damn soothing and relaxing and puts u to sleep in minutes specially if it takes a while for you to ACTUALLY fall a sleep... i think i would prefer a back-sratch rather than massage :-D
and some guys really need to get to know their so called feminine side. :0 they really need to be assured that ITS OKAY. :-D
okay okay i admit i made a mistake .... MOST guys...
uff I could receive a massage right now…koi banda dhoundo:blush: 
banda haazir hai 
there is nothing wrong with giving or recieving massage...My brother gives me head and neck massage and presses my feet :D sometimes shoulders too. There is nothing as soothing as a good massage.
Cat as for that lady, you know its not her fault..., I would just say that many people in our part of the world do not know that hugging, kissing, holding hands and just being together is also an essential element of married life. I guess its because of the joint family system that couples don't get to do much and hence that response from the lady.
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Cat as for that lady, you know its not her fault..., I would just say that many people in our part of the world do not know that hugging, kissing, holding hands and just being together is also an essential element of married life. I guess its because of the joint family system that couples don't get to do much and hence that response from the lady.
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I can not buy this argument. No it can not be the case as all humans know the basics by heart. Do u teach a suckling baby how to suck?
see I never wrote 'all; I wrote many ( i could be wrong) and on top of that I made that remark keeping in view a specific context.
I didn’t actually mean that don’t know anything 
u are absolutely wrong
what specific context? 
I must say, this thread is very very discouraging. I was expecting an at-home spa and massages from my husband when I get married :halo: I guess now i can kiss my dreams good bye since most desi guys dont seem interested in massage-giving. sigh!
no they do like the massages 
they just dont like to return the favour
unless theyre exceptional of course…
i cant imagine most skinny tiny desi girls giving anyone massages worth mention.
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*Originally posted by lost soul: *
Cat as for that lady, you know its not her fault..., I would just say that many people in our part of the world do not know that hugging, kissing, holding hands and just being together is also an essential element of married life. I guess its because of the joint family system that couples don't get to do much and hence that response from the lady.
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thats true..wat i dont get is how can u be so uncomfortable around each other n have kids? Like these ppl r too shy to cuddle up n give massages n then they are married n do other things :-s hehe my dad gives my mom massages like where she needs it...wats so wrong about it? Like when my friends come over n they see my parents they are surprised that my parents r so close to each other and so comfortable around each other
Ok I am in favor of giving and taking massage.
btw after some years of marraige with 2,3 kids. wont have much time for massage
How about proving it to us Mehnaz? Muze sabood chahiye.
How about you phone my mother and ask her for yourself. Don't worry, it won't be long-distance for you. :p