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Youre wierd, maybe you dont like the touch of another human being. :p
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Raz-e-riyasat zahir ho gaya. Fungus is weird.
Who said you have to give/receive masage from your spouse?
Re: Pakistani husbands and massage-giving.
Don’t be so coy CW. Foot massage makes a woman feel good everywhere, not just feet.
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Wait period is one year.
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They say if u massage the feet that it relaxes the whole body, cos all the nerves or something (?) lead to the feet…i dunno, but i think it’s true…anyway, i think it is kinda taboo just bcos it is an intimate “activity” and anything that involves physical contact in our culture/religion is looked down on…in my family we’re not very touchy-feely at all…but i do remember walking on backs when i was younger too! My fiance’s family is the opposite, and he gives his parents massages…as a result i think, i actually don’t like to give or receive them as much as he does…he likes to give them, and i give them knowing it makes him feel better 
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why is it taboo?
i get the best massages
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OYE who brought this topic back up. I will kindly ask people not to revive my old threads 
sadzz, lucky you 
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I used to get a lot of head massages from dad, mom and bro cuz of headaches. My mom would still sometimes ask me to walk on her back. :D
I don't think anything's wrong with getting or giving a massage to your spouse. I get wonderful massages. :o
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I don't know why guys hate giving massages, that's the only reason your ex would ever give you a call after a year at around 3 in the morning. you don't have to be an expert to know it. Nothing softens a girl up like a good 'ol back rub :o.
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i remember standing on my parents and grandparents back when i was a kid. But lately it's been less of a walk on the back and more of a step up and down.
Although i remembr going to pakistan and my nana gi, asking me to stand on his back and i was going for 5/10 minutes and my naani said 'tu thale utar ja, ena ne nai kena ke bas kar'
it's the same with my dad if he asks me to massage his legs or stad on his back i'll be doing it for ages and he won't saying until i'm going reaallllllly slow because i'm tired
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He better give me a massage, thats the only reason i even wanna get married, to save money on massage parlours 
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Mine gives great massages :D