Well if you don't think it can be an enjoyable trip then maybe you should talk with your husband.
i ve talked to hm.but he said reservation is done....nd i dont want to run their trip by telling the reason....
but i said this time observe attitudes of others MIL,BIl.....and i wont go again with family
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this thread is a joke... is it?
u sound so naive... sigh
Im astonished with the type of behaviour ur showing...
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kill your mother in law, throw out your brother in law on the streets and poison your father in law. Stab anyone else that ever tries living with you.
OR
Speak up and deal with it like a mature woman with a family.
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^ As rude as that sounds, thats probably the most honest answer on this page.
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Thanks Your President!!
kill your mother in law, throw out your brother in law on the streets and poison your father in law. Stab anyone else that ever tries living with you.
OR
Speak up and deal with it like a mature woman with a family.
...i agree...
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btw sakoora how can you not consider you MIL and BIL family okay forget the dewar but what about your mother in law how can you say such mean things about her like that....
first of all you shudnt be comparing your life wityh your mother in laws life so what if she didnt take her saas with her on vactions or trips thats her business with her saas.... and as for all the mean things she says HELLLOOO she's paralyzed!!!! she's obviously gna be grumpy!!! just one thing sakoora complain whine all you want but you have a kid ryte??? what if wen you get older what if you get paralyzed (Allah na karey) but how wud you feel if your kid totally neglected you to go out with his wife and kids ...i mean she's old you duno how long she'll live ...and if she does insult you try finding out why...be nice to her talk to her give her time ... no offence but i think your acting like a baby and need to grow up.... she your mil equivalant to your mother AND YOU CANT SAY [EMAIL="SHE@S"]SHE@S NOT FAMILY!!! bescuz if your hubby considers your side of the family family you should too.... and another thing how wud you like it if your hubby kept insulting your parents!!!
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i feel like sayin sumthin so mean bu nahhhhhh
i ve talked to hm.but he said reservation is done....nd i dont want to run their trip by telling the reason....
but i said this time observe attitudes of others MIL,BIl.....and i wont go again with family
why dont you just go alone no one else jus you by ure self you'll haf so much fun then
why dont you just go alone no one else jus you by ure self you'll haf so much fun then
:CareBear::CareBear:
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then you can run around without your dupatta
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^:omg:
on the other hand u knw i think u really need to grow up n start thinking more like an adult, like u have mentioned in anther thread u r soon going to usa so jo thora sa time hai hubby ki family k sath just TRY n enjoy it, kal ka koi patha nhi k when u cme back who will stil b here n who wont then u mighht end up regretting it, believe me it happens, count urself lucky that Allah SWT has given u this chance to take cre of ur in laws not many ppl do,
oh n whats this duppata biznis , there r so many women in this world that do hijab n u r one of them im sure i have never heard anyone else complaning about it before, i have a kid n i dnt do hijab n i find it twice as difficult to take cre of him,jeez
:biggthumbcant agreee with yu more !!!
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Thnk u
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being paralyzed is no excuse for MIL being nasty and mean to Sakoora. Also none of you are experiencing day to day problems she is facing. Its easy to say "I would never act like that" when your not in the situation or have never experienced situations like that.
Sakoora it looks like you will have to go, but cant you ask/persuad you husband to get a seperate room while you are there. Then atleast you could relax atlittle.
being paralyzed is no excuse for MIL being nasty and mean to Sakoora. Also none of you are experiencing day to day problems she is facing. Its easy to say "I would never act like that" when your not in the situation or have never experienced situations like that.
Sakoora it looks like you will have to go, but cant you ask/persuad you husband to get a seperate room while you are there. Then atleast you could relax atlittle.
actually for your info my uncle use to be paralyzed and lived with us for abt 3 years and yeh there was a tyme wen he use to be nasty and insult us all the tyme.... later we found out it was away for him seekin attention.... so everything im saying nadeem is after experience!!! and i knw how it feels bu you hafta put your self in there position and let go of the mean things they say !!
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^likewise i also have a mentally depressed MIL b sometimes she can b all lovey dovey n other times she would insult us n shout or whatever at first i answered back but then my husband slowly helped me to understand her n learn how to tolerate her
i live abroad n whenever i go pak i do dread it but then i get used to it again n carry on as normal.
my hubby also used to take the MIL most places we went but then we had times where i could choose as to who i wanted with us, to b honest i would rather have family go along with us rather than alone, even if its HIS family as u call it
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oh and regards to ur post where u mentioned that u are the only sister of 3 brothers well my nanand is also 1 sis of 3 bros n if she was to say any of the things u said like its his family n not mine and i dnt want to go out with them well u know what she would have got a slap across the face from me
is that what ur parents have taught u how to respect ur in-laws?well they should b ashamed as to the outcome
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^likewise i also have a mentally depressed MIL b sometimes she can b all lovey dovey n other times she would insult us n shout or whatever at first i answered back but then my husband slowly helped me to understand her n learn how to tolerate her ** i live abroad n whenever i go pak i do dread it but then i get used to it again n carry on as normal.** my hubby also used to take the MIL most places we went but then we had times where i could choose as to who i wanted with us, to b honest i would rather have family go along with us rather than alone, even if its HIS family as u call it
well thats y its so easy for u to dismiss her problems..bcs she faces them everyday..she lives with them..honey u live in another coutnry..u dont live with ur mil everyday..u go back once in a blue moon and deal with her for al little while and come back to the tranquil coutnry in which ur reside..so b4 u go telling this poor woman who has to deal with these ppl day and night that she should be ashamed of herself..try to have a heart..adn understadn her dsituation b4 u go telling her off..she has to deal with a lot more **** then u do!