reha your post made me laugh, finally. I have been avoiding her all along. Maybe this is what Im going to do for a more while. Receiving texts and avoid picking phone calls is not a big deal, although I might be in a problem she calls from an unknown number coz i will be caught unaware then. That needs to be solved too. I think im going to prepare myself for the worse: she comes to see me: and this time, i will have to be straight forward to her. Allah its hard i know :(
being nice is not going to help......people at this forum give you incorrect suggestion....
Call her..and give her a piece of your mind...... and spend your life peacefully...
I didn't get a chance to read what others said but I knew someone like that, she still e-mails me till this day. Just saying things like she misses me, loves me, makes dua for me. This girl was in my boarding for when I was in school, so I've lived with her. She appeared to be completely normal, but she did have some mental issues (I'm not exactly sure what it was). It could be something of that sort because it is odd to keep texting someone who is not responding.
Diwana i more than agree. You are very right. She misread my silence as a half agreement. I need to be articulate about it now, I know. Not that I have been flattered ever. She is not the first or the last one BUT her ways do not seem and sound like NORMAL anymore, and its bothering me now. Lets see if she calls me now, I have some tangible to deal with then. Fighting via sms sounds stupid to me. God she sent this message “miss you goodnight” last night again. It feels sick anyway.
Well having good wishes for others and appreciating someone/ liking someone is something else. We all have it for someone or others, our siblings. But i dont think she is as naive as that or I had no reasons to be upset. Let me grow enough balls to be stern and straight forward.
I agree with Reha here. Send a text on your husband's behalf and politely but firmly tell her not to bother you anymore or that you use this phone strictly for work and family, that's it (since you mentioned you still wanted to be somewhat nice to her).
If this doesn't work and she continues her creepy behavior than talk to her directly and tell her since you are busy and don't have time for any personal chitchat and phone calls, she is to only contact you in person at your school. Tell her that the buck stops here and she is to only come up to you ONLY if she has a school-related concern. Be upfront about it!
I could not read all the post but what i have collected so far is you are her teacher and she was a student right. You must call her and talk to her directly and strictly. You can scold her and tell her that you don't like her childish behavior.
so cute, fifa. She isnt a student or things would have been easier. She has just assumed so. Even if she were, she is on job now. I cant scold her, but well, I will have to tell her, just as bluebell advised. Now its time. By the way I just replied a random text of hers and invited her to my home on sunday. And look at her reply:
“ma’am meri to eid sunday hi hojaye ge thanx alot. see you soon.”
So I havent worked out my next strategy, but lets see. sunday is two days away
Bluebells, dear, she is a distant relative of my inlaws and a sister of my husband’s friend. Tell me how can I escape from her? I cannot keep my husband around He is in KSA
I don’t know man,
I thought Zobia’s post about that ayah was a little to the extreme but what if she does something crazy. What if she pulls out a knife and slits her wrist and writes your name with her blood?
But you have a point I guess, maybe you could do this better in person.
why use such language here…
thanx alot. see you soon.”
He is in KSA 
