Now you may kiss the bride :D

[NomiCA]

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^ they aren’t the screwing dogs are they???

[ZareenKhan]

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@webmister

This idea is too risky. What if they start kissing and don’t stop, how will you break them

now stop making out your fantasies out of it!

[STA]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

**no comments on it’s induction into desi weddings…i’m personally against it 100%…it’s something for private sessions

as far urdu is concerned it would be something like this:

“pesh raft kijiye aur apni ahliyah ko zer-e-lab bosa’inaayat kijiye”

how about giving the instruction to the bride? it would then be like this:

****be-sharmii se pesh raft kijiye aur apne shauhar-e-naa-muraad **[oops! naamdaar] bosa bar lab 'inaayat kijiye

aur french kiss ki translation bhi inayat farma dijiye.

french kiss = bos o kinar

[Deeba1234]

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@ZareenKhan

How can you even compare the two oh ya only If they are going to have sex infront of the whole gathering :halo:.

I really doubt it though .

Did I say anywhere that they were going to have sex in front of everyone??? I simply made the point that if they’re ok to have sex the first night it’s hardly shocking if they share a quick/subtle kiss..

[ZareenKhan]

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@Deeba1234

Did I say anywhere that they were going to have sex in front of everyone??? I simply made the point that if they’re ok to have sex the first night it’s hardly shocking if they share a quick/subtle kiss..

You r missing the point. How does their comfort level with each other in private concludes what they would/should be open to do in public . I just don’t get it!

[webmister]

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@NomiCA

^ they aren’t the screwing dogs are they???

First timers can be like anything.

[Faris_Udeen]

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Impossible!
Namunkin!

[webmister]

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@ZareenKhan

now stop making out your fantasies out of it!

My fantasies are much more than just kissing

[Deeba1234]

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@ZareenKhan

You r missing the point. How does their comfort level with each other in private concludes what they would/should be open to do in public . I just don’t get it!

I think it can correlate (tho obviously not with everyone).. Let’s just agree to disagree

[Enigmatic]

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@webmister

This idea is too risky. What if they start kissing and don’t stop, how will you break them

nobody in their right mind would not want to break the kissing infront of the watchful scrutiny of their FIL/MIL as well the gossipy aunties of the khandaan and not to mention the maulvi sahab too.

[Sajalina]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

lo kar lo baat…yehi to maqsad hai k kisi kii samajh meN na aaye aur sirf couples ko aa jaaye kiuN k unkii bhaabhiyaaN donoN ko bataa deNgii k yeh kia balaa hotii hai

tou aap isi liye itni mushkil mushkil posts likhte hain takay kisi ki samjh main hee na aa sakay?

[Niksik]

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@ZareenKhan

how many of you think … 1) we soon wl have this also incorporated in our already non-islamic shadi rituals. 2) its not appropriate. 3) it wl be a good addition.

And last but not the least…what wl be the correct translation of it in urdu without making it sound silly. Lols.

1. It’ll soon catch up
2. It is not appropriate in our culture
3. It will be a very notorious addition
4. Ab aap dulhan ko choom saktey hain

[Mirch]

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@Niksik

4. Ab aap dulhan ko choom saktey hain

With desis you have to be careful about all these thing.
If you do not say who can choom who , the whole crowd will start chooming the dulhan or all nikahfied people will choom their dulhans so it will be a mass kissing contest .
You might have seen after nikah there is so much commotion to hug the groom and bride and congratulate them.

So . The announcement will be like this:

choon k Bala wald chajja ka nikah zeenat bint a siraj k sath ho chuka ha lihaza ab bala wald chajja apni zoja zeenat bint a siraj ka bosa leenay k haqdar patay hain. Bala agay barho aur zeenat bint a siraj say apna azdawaji haq wasool kar low.

[Niksik]

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^:omg:

[NomiCA]

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@Mirch

With desis you have to be careful about all these thing.
If you do not say who can choom who , the whole crowd will start chooming the dulhan or all nikahfied people will choom their dulhans so it will be a mass kissing contest .
You might have seen after nikah there is so much commotion to hug the groom and bride and congratulate them.

So . The announcement will be like this:

coon k Bala wald chajja ka nikah zeenat bint a siraj k sath ho chuka ha lihaza ab bala wald chajja apni zoja zeenat bint a siraj ka bosa leenay k haqdar patay hain. Bala agay barho aur zeenat bint a siraj say apna azdawaji haq wasool kar low.

uncle g…yeh to baat kiss se bohat aagay nikaal di aapnay…

[Mirch]

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@NomiCA

uncle g…yeh to baat kiss se bohat aagay nikaal di aapnay…

Yeah I know desis are always looking for a chance to go overboard that is why I said azdawaji haq not azjawaji haqooq.
There is a long list of those and kiss is only one of them.

[ll_xx_ll]

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@Enigmatic

not happening anytime soon and I think it shouldn’t.

but to some of the replies..I almost spilled my coke laughing

**did it go up ur nose?

@Zareen it would be inappropriate I dont see it happening **

[ll_xx_ll]

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@Deeba1234

If you’re going to have sex the first night I can’t really see the big deal with a **light **(ie sweet/respectful) kiss after nikah..

My brother was told ‘you may now kiss the bride’ at his registry do and he just gave her a peck on the cheek.. it doesn’t necessarily have to look awkward or inappropriate even for practising/religious Muslims..

^^i agree with this,…

[Jhanjariya]

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chumma sounds the best

[ll_xx_ll]

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@BarbieCue

How many girls here would kiss the husband right after nikah infront of the whole khandaan?

if he came at me tryna kiss me…i see myself quickly presenting him with my cheek or hand