Hello everyone,
After asking you people for suggestions so many times by a couple of my threads,you people would be aware of the issues me and him were facing.
I have realized that,his mom is never going to accept me, and we can never be happy if we go ahead and marry without our parents’ consent.So now, I have broken off everything with him. I have informed him that, and I just plan not to stay in touch with him any way. This decision has been taken by me, but still why do i feel so sad about it? 
How do I overcome that? How can I start feeling better?
awww 
Time is the best healer.
Congrats on the right decision btw.
Get involved in creative activities. Keep yourself busy. And most importantly: Develop Aims! Life without aims or goals is boring and pointless.
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u just have to concentrate on ur activities............just dont be sad........its just a matter of couple of weeks .....
Best Of Luck
Hello everyone, After asking you people for suggestions so many times by a couple of my threads,you people would be aware of the issues me and him were facing. I have realized that,his mom is never going to accept me, and we can never be happy if we go ahead and marry without our parents' consent.So now, I have broken off everything with him. I have informed him that, and I just plan not to stay in touch with him any way. This decision has been taken by me, but still why do i feel so sad about it? :( How do I overcome that? How can I start feeling better?
so what's your age?
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Time is the biggest healer.
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so what's your age?
I don't want to hear responses which wouldn't make any sense!
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Girlie You obviously loved him *alot. *But if its *really *meant to be this guy wont stop and will convince his Mother. Anyway you probly wont get over him if you truly loved him, It takes time to heal so pleasee dont rush into getting with another guy or doing things you dont normally do. Be sad.. Cry and let it out.. Its normal. Dont rush the healing process. In time Allah has another plan for you inshallah. Hang in there hun xx
that’s what i am trying to tell you, what you did doesn’t make any sense 
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Be happy in the knowledge that u have made the right decision for urself. It takes a stong person to realise that the relationship is going no where and to break it off and end it. Take up a new hobby or activity and try keep urself busy. Maybe join a class at the gym or just read some good books, anything to keep ur mind occupied. Are u at uni? If u are then just concentrate hard on ur studies and don't let that slide. I wish u all the best hun :) xxx
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tell yourself that Thank God it's just a broken relationship and not a broken marriage. just imagine how devastating a broken marriage would have been (God Forbid!)
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Holy cow! we were just messing with you and you actually broke up with him?
Alright that was a bad joke, find yourself a hobby or something. Do something with your life, dont just sit idle and think about what happened and what could have happened.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift :k:
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puts a lot of oil is his air, spits out some paan
Vhaaat u doings night?
spits more paan
puts a lot of oil is his air, spits out some paan
Vhaaat u doings night?
spits more paan
Allah better knows what you are trying to say.
Transitional relationship? 
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try to occupy your time with activities that could distract you......
perhaps do some volunteer work at the senior's center or the local soup kitchen.
seeing other people who are in need often helps us to forget what we consider misfortune in our own lives......
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aw i hope u feel better soon.
time heals:phati:
eat candies and chocolates .yumyum
and peanut butter and jam sandwich:phati:
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If you're not working right now, get a job. If you have one, focus all your energy into doing better in it.
Stay close to your family...reach out to them.
Hang out with your friends more...see them even when you dont really feel like seeing them.
Become part of a cause you really believe in and help people. Volunteer your time and energy in charitable causes...its a great way to feel better about yourself...tried and tested!