This relationship is the one which helps you get over with your last break up . Usually its very casual and non-serious . You can say its like Aspirin for headache .
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Ok, I see!
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Actually, now he’s making it difficult for me, as he keeps on insisting that i shouldn’t break off this relationship.What should i do now? 
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What do you mean? :(
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girlie1 how old are you? is this your first serious relationship? how long have you been together?
What do you mean? :(
To put it more bluntly he means use ur damn brain girl. Do not get back together with him. You'll be going round in circles, making up breaking up and causing urself more tension and stress. Unless he can get his mum to agree don't even bother speaking to him. IMO there are very few Pakistani men that can cut off all ties with their mum and family, never speak to them or see them again and go and marry someone and be happy and feel no regrets.
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^agreed
girlie1 how old are you? is this your first serious relationship? how long have you been together?
I'm 22,and yes,it's my first relationship,and it's been over two years.
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:( its a shame to throw away 2 years, But you have to realise your 22years old and you can either waste another 2 years and be 24... then jus loose interest in all other good men that will have mothers that love you. Thats jus My opinion..
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I know :hinna:
I wrote him about the break-up in an email, as i couldn’t gather guts to say it on the phone or face-to-face.Since then I haven’t heard from him, not even regarding anything about the break-up decision i had taken.So, it’s just making me worried.What should I do doing? 
Khala ji make up the story properly. You contradict yourself.
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Well, he didn't want me to break-up, but i finally took this decision.But after that I haven't heard anything from him yet.
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^gud...now just move on without thinking about him..and keep yourself busy.
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But Iam just not able to move on.I just can't help stop thinking of him no matter what. :(
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Whats the use of sitting on GS moaning about it? Allah Malik. He will deal with it man. Jus chill out! Enjoy your life, Cry for him till you feel you can move on. Dont contact him, Deal with it. And watch how you'll come to terms with it, and see how you'll be moving on, Yeah he'll always be your true love, and you'll love him forever and you'll always think about him. But you cant change it now. You finished it. Allah has another plan for you or maybe a little time and a break will help you realise what you *really *want!