Reha
October 21, 2017, 12:30am
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Re: How to handle a troubling husband
Can anyone who is more experienced help me. I am really going through tough stage of my life. My relation with my husband has become terrible. He always doubts me , doubts at my sincerity. I have 2 kids who are entering teen age and our house had never been disturbed to this extent ever. He works out of town but makes sure that he keeps bothering me over phone. He looks for a reason to fight and whenever he gets one then it’s days & days of verbal torture over phone & through texts. He works out of town & always when angry tells that he’s not gonna find job in same city . I have tried everything, tried chatting with him when he’s in good mood about his behaviours. Every time he promises this is last time and will never happen again. I feel helpless, being a mom of growing kids I have no choice other than to bear torture. It feels like soon I will become severe depression patient. There are no elderly people in our family whom I can talk to. Please advise
I don’t have older kids but have you noticed his behavior changing or has he always been like this? Did it start after a particular fight or incident or did he just start misbehaving with you one day? There has to be more to the story…not doubting you but looking for reasons. Without knowing the problem, there can’t be a solution.