I get really shocked hearing about guys in their early 20’s looking for marriage . It’s quite confusing cuz i see some people not being very rigid about the age, where as some are quite rigid. I have gotten rishtas of guys same age as me and two of guys who were a year younger than me and surprisingly the guy’s family didnt have an issue about it but we did.
I have come to realise that if its meant to be, it will be and people wl ignore the age difference and even if you are not that pretty/fit/educated/rich. But if its not meant to be, if its not yet the time for you to get married then you won’t no matter how rich/pretty/educated and sorted you are.
Well i cnt say about others but i dnt feel comfortable with it ...If i was older n the guy was like in his 30's it wud be ok but i dnt think guys shud get married in their early/mid 20's so that is another reason. If the guy has just graduated and is not doing much, you can't really tell if he is gonna have a good future or not and now that is imp.
I have rejected three guys in my life because they are younger than me. they are my friends and they proposed me… they didn’t have any problem with my age… but i don’t know why i wasn’t comfortable with this so i rejected… but now i am repenting as one of them was/is my very good friend.. sort if gentleman… If he proposes me again… i will accept it… because i know guys have no problem with girls age now… they just want understanding with their prospective wife… you can call me desperate but seriously i don’t have any other option now… i am not dating with him… not flirting… i hardly talk to him, i am not trying… but if he is in my kismat. tou woh khud hi ajaye ga mery pass
I have rejected three guys in my life because they are younger than me. they are my friends and they proposed me........ they didn't have any problem with my age........ but i don't know why i wasn't comfortable with this so i rejected....... but now i am repenting as one of them was/is my very good friend.. sort if gentleman......... If he proposes me again... i will accept it......... because i know guys have no problem with girls age now......... they just want understanding with their prospective wife........ you can call me desperate but seriously i don't have any other option now......... :p i am not dating with him.... not flirting........ i hardly talk to him, i am not trying......... but if he is in my kismat. tou woh khud hi ajaye ga mery pass :p
I believe in kismet and all but at the same time it is also true that we shud work towards what we want to get and rest just leave upto him. If i was in your place and regret rejecting someone, i would have no calms about approaching them myself this time around :). Give them your true reasons for rejecting them ealier and why you are ok with it now. I think we shouldnt let go of such opportunities for ego or anything at all.
Considering that one can get a good job after a 4 years bachelors from a good uni, a guy ends up in job market at the age of 22 and if he opts for a masters, he ends up at the age of 24 or max 25. What more financial stability do you want?
I prefer my husband to be older than me even if its just a year. I just can't imagine my husband to be younger or even same as my age. I want him to behave and act mature and that why I want an older guy. Besides, girls are more mature in younger age comparatively. My husband will have to meet my intellectual level :p
Considering that one can get a good job after a 4 years bachelors from a good uni, a guy ends up in job market at the age of 22 and if he opts for a masters, he ends up at the age of 24 or max 25. What more financial stability do you want?
yah ok so u have just started working so shudnt u get some work experience b4 taking up more responsibilities esp something like marriage which needs alot of your time and attention to make it work....i dnt know, maybe u guys think differently but this is my opinion and i wl ofcourse do what suits me better.
Considering that one can get a good job after a 4 years bachelors from a good uni, a guy ends up in job market at the age of 22 and if he opts for a masters, he ends up at the age of 24 or max 25. What more financial stability do you want?
Financial stability comes from the savings from 5 year of job and single life where he would have been saving all his earnings :p
yah ok so u have just started working so shudnt u get some work experience b4 taking up more responsibilities esp something like marriage which needs alot of your time and attention to make it work....i dnt know, maybe u guys think differently but this is my opinion and i wl ofcourse do what suits me better.
Financial stability comes from the savings from 5 year of job and single life where he would have been saving all his earnings :p
Most of the guys who are getting married in young age are already financially stable or they have got a good job in some multinational company and they don't have any other responsibilities on their shoulders...... guys who have responsibilities don't get married in their 20's. So next time if you get proposal of guy who is in his early 20's don't reject him thinking that he is not financially stable. he must be stable that's why he is getting married. Our generation don't get married just sake of getting married......... they pre-plan everything.
Most of the guys who are getting married in young age are already financially stable or they have got a good job in some multinational company and they don't have any other responsibilities on their shoulders...... guys who have responsibilities don't get married in their 20's. So next time if you get proposal of guy who is in his early 20's don't reject him thinking that he is not financially stable. he must be stable that's why he is getting married. Our generation don't get married just sake of getting married......... they pre-plan everything.
Well ofcourse i didnt say i wud reject anyone at all only on the basis of their age. obviously you do consider the overall package (lol) and if everything else fits in well then i dnt think rejecting them based on a yr or so difference is wise. But each to their own, if somebody is nt comfortable with it i wudnt judge them cuz after all being comfortable with the person u r gonna get married to is the most imp thing imo.
. It’s quite confusing cuz i see some people not being very rigid about the age, where as some are quite rigid. I have gotten rishtas of guys same age as me and two of guys who were a year younger than me 
i am not dating with him… not flirting… i hardly talk to him, i am not trying… but if he is in my kismat. tou woh khud hi ajaye ga mery pass 
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