I am neither bad nor nice. I am human.
Sparkplug i would say: Cynical, horny, desperate, bitter and perverted describe me best. Thus of course i am lonely. 
Nice guys finish last
Nice guys finish last- By: Gareth Hols
It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they're after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.
Girls are idiots. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.
Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, “Oh he's hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the $hit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department.
Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn't he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I've let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole.
Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn't work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you.
Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren't looking for nice guys… they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.
To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.
How many 'nice' guys/assholes do we have here?
I think this is sooo true!
Poor guys :-p
You tell me.
^ which one would be an insult to you? Nice guy or asshole?
you don't have to be an asshole to get girls - at least that's my case. :D
I've always believed that nice guys don't get laid. If they do, they are assholes.
Hmmm, ahan exactly as I thought :-/
No one is gonna admit they're an asshole!
Well not all nice guys secretly like the dumb girl lol
Nor are they always interested in eventually hooking up with her! Sometimes it's just out of pity and you feel sorry for her.
My experiences have been the 'nice' girl who falls for such an idiot is usually not only very stupid but self centered and matlabi too. She'll go around trying to get everyone to feel sorry for her... cause she's spoiled and needs everyone to like and care about her.. even if she doesn't deserve it.
Try to politely shoo her away and she'll get all bitchy and demand your attention... cause according to her she's 'worth it'.
If the nice guy is just a friend .. hopefully it's cause he sees right through her and knows she's NOT worth it. lol
But its very true and the girls I know have told me the same.. everyone seems to only be interested in the one they can not have.
I think a lot of it has to do with popular culture. The 'bad' guy always seems to have a heart of gold.. you just gotta make him see it.
Yeah, right! You can not ever change anyone!
and I know I've said this soooo many times..
Don't mistake arrogance for confidence!
There's a really big difference!
Shinoo 
Funny and true.
If a girl likes that kind of guy
what does it say about the girl and vice versa.
only Nice AND stupid guys finish last.. the Nice and smart guys would rather run alone than grab the s$it end of the stick…
remember the golden rule.. no matter how hot you think the girl is … someone somewhere is sick of her crap!!!
sounds like the modern day equivalent of the fox and sour grapes fable.
no queerio.. the fox could just look at 'em.. this is more about not ‘biting’ 
I think people's definition of nice guy is a bit lacking here..
being a nice guy does not mean that one can not be fun, confident, assertive and a go getter, does not mean someone who is devoid of a personality. being a nice guy does not mean you cant be cool or hot or whatever.
My younger brother is the ultimate nice guy, he will never harm a person, is very sensitive about people's feelings, how his words or actions may impact someone else. You need help, he is there, you need advice, he is there, you need anything, and he will be there. No ego issues, no bad temper. a kind, gentle, sophisticated person who is extremely fun to be around and fun at parties.
he is a nice guy, and he rocks..
I consider myself somewhat of a nice guy myself, but compared to him, I am a mere caveman.
How old is your brother ? ;)
Hahahaha, Fraudz that sounded like a matrimonial ad for your bro. Trying to get him married off eh? :p
PS: there u go, Phat gurl here seems interested :-D
Shinoo
oh he is taken already. The point was that he is a nice guy, but at the same time an amazing person.
btw a matromonial ad would sound something like this
pakistani boy- british citizen 29 years old
educated in US and UK working as a senior professional for a major engineering organization
6'2". green eyes, fair complexion, atheletic fit
urdu speaking, sunni family
thats my other younger brother :) oh and he is available, but kinda not looking..
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thats my other younger brother :) oh and he is available, but kinda not looking..
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Ahhh man, u killed it with the last sentence. I bet lots of girls were getting excited :p
theres a difference of opinion in nice guys - as usual
most of the 'nice' guys i met were emotional screw-ups
they were just too nice, forget the looks etc etc they had no character, theyre always trying to play the 'oh im so considerate let me help u and be ure walking stick bcos ure an emotional cripple'
why dont they ever talk abt whats going on in their life for a change?
besides if they like u they should make it clear instead of crossing into the friendship circle :o ( guys take note of that )
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theres a difference of opinion in nice guys - as usual
most of the 'nice' guys i met were emotional screw-ups
they were just too nice, forget the looks etc etc they had no character, theyre always trying to play the 'oh im so considerate let me help u and be ure walking stick bcos ure an emotional cripple'
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ooh i hate those types.