Age old question usually discussed over a drink. That is what was happening last night when i was out. 6 guys, what are gonna discuss other than women and the local evolving situation. Anyway i dont want a girls opinion on this, because they will all say “we like nice guys”. I wanna hear what the guys think.
Well first do you consider yourself a “nice guy”? Secondly do you think nice guys finish last? Lastly what do you think women look for?
Bring on the hurt (ie comments from the females).
As a desi nice guy, I manage to avoid coming last as you can count on your parents to find you a podium position, if you know what I mean.
Being nice or not is of no relevance.
Bring on the hurt (ie comments from the females).
LOL 
Who is a ‘nice guy’ anyway? I don’t think people can be classified as ‘nice’ and ‘not nice’. Who you get along with is all about personal compatibility and matching traits imho. I’m thinking of people [guys and girls] I have known and I can’t really decide who was ‘nicer’. They all had their positives and negatives. Though, I think I felt closest to the ones with whom I had the most shared experiences or common background (which could be in terms of socioreligious values or even geographical location or time spent together).
girls like the bad guys and then want to try and turn them into nice guys..and then they have problems :)
But nice guys r always taken first :-/
Its not a case of being nice, its a case of being interesting.
Nice guys are often boring.
Do the math.
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*Originally posted by hiccup: *
Its not a case of being nice, its a case of being interesting.
Nice guys are often boring.
Do the math.
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For once I am proud to say I am not nice.
Define nice guy CM. If it is the seedhay saaday, shareef lalloo type guys then not many girls want them, however that is what a girls parents might be prefer!
^ i want seedhay saadhay lalloo type guys.. they r easier to boss around 
Really Suroor? Only so you can boss him around? I enjoy being bossy at times too but I believe its more fun to boss around a non-lalloo guy :D
FF.. non lalloos have too much nakhraaz, i’d rather have a guy who can put up with my naakhraaz instead
Why on earth would u want a lakeer ka fakeer??? I would get myself a slave if I were you :
I dont define it, as the conversation went last night, nobody really agrees to the same concept of a nice guy. So that is why i asked what guys define as a nice guy.
But we did achieve a conclusion last night. It aint that women dont like nice guys. They do. However as they two fine specimens of the female gender have shown. Its the aspect of change that is instrumental in their choice of a male.
A "bad" boy (dont ask me to define that) once changed gives a female some sense of accomplishment or god knows what. I dont even bother trying to understand them anymore.
Anyway you girls normally dont prefer all out nice guys with no back bone. The hustle and tustle physical or otherwise is your choice really,is what interests them....or so we concluded.
hahaha.. not a bad idea ! 
cute seedha saada lallo.. lakeer ka faqeer hubby
Suroor:
All guys can be bossed around.. nice or not nice. j/k
Well, if nice means..boring, nerdy, mommy's boy foos then nice are definitely the last.
But if nice means.. sensitive and respectful yet interesting, then nice ones have a better chance than the bad boys.
Bad Boys 4 Life 
**CM, a nice guy is one
comfortable in his own skin who can be
a sincere and genuine friend amidst the
handful husband and or parental responsibilities
he may have to fulfill. Although he may be
nice towards his spouse, he might not be so towards
other females (obviously excluding immediate
female family members). Afterall it's only his wife
who matters why should he be so towards anyone
else. And with the way
some girls are these days, it's always better
to keep a far distance anyway.
Do I consider myself a nice guy, I think
it's not my place to respond, rather my spouse's.
Different women look for different things. All
that matters is that he be comfortable under
his own skin and the person who can take him
for his own is the only one who'll matter and
he'll truly be happy with in the long run. Plus once
a guy is at ease with who he is and ready
for his responsibilities of a relationship, he'll
find his mate suitably fitting to the vibes he
had put out. My personal experience, nice
guys are winners even before the game begins. **
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But nice guys r always taken first :-/
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oo oo ooohhh me me
jumps to get noticed
Aalhan you are a guy 
i agree with it .. nice guys DO finish last in most things except for getting girlfriends.