Lots of insensitive posts here. Someone is suffering and in the midst of a truly heartbreaking situation and some of you have the audacity to complain about how long it is?
Even better are those of you who are giving advice without reading the entire post.
If you can't help the poster, go to another thread. Debate something really original and worthy of your time. I'm sure there's a real scintillating discussion about love marriages versus arranged marriages that could really use your enlightened opinion.
Lets leave this topic for those of us who have the time, capacity and genuine concern for helping this unfortunate individual.
I sooooooooo agree. I was insenstitive in the beginnning, and then I realized how awful this whole situation was- I couldn't stop thinking about it the WHOLE NIGHT! This could happen to any of us! Basically the idiot screwed up this girl's life. Anyways I really think, as the majority of the posters, she needs to divorce this guy and move on to a better life. Allah will reward her for her suffering she;s so paitiently handled!
he will most probably give a few taweez......... for wearing and for drinking (u have 2 dilute the quranic text in water) and give u wazeefas/ names of Allah to read.
I wrote my problem and he just wrote that jadoo has been done on my hubby and the treatment for it....
Yaar he is the guy from Qtv, he helps with any sort of problem.
he will most probably give a few taweez......... for wearing and for drinking (u have 2 dilute the quranic text in water) and give u wazeefas/ names of Allah to read.
I wrote my problem and he just wrote that jadoo has been done on my hubby and the treatment for it....
Yaar he is the guy from Qtv, he helps with any sort of problem.
Boredom, I don't think this stuff is right. Muhammad (s) never used to this kind of stuff (diluting quranic texts, etc!). I think this would qualify as biddah, and bidah (innovation) is a sin. I think you should just pray to Allah, make duas and also seek practical ways to get out of this situation- divorce, etc. She's been doing things like this for five years! I think it's time to drop it ,and move on to practical solutions. To be practical is not haraam, you know!
Also, I would like to know where is he coming with these kinds of "treatments." From his head? The only kind of treatments he should be giving out are those substantiated by the Quran and hadith. And I have NEVER seen/ heard anything like that that Muhammad (s) used to do .
Also how did he determine it was "jadoo" and not something else? What are the qualifications of this person?
he will most probably give a few taweez......... for wearing and for drinking (u have 2 dilute the quranic text in water) and give u wazeefas/ names of Allah to read.
I wrote my problem and he just wrote that jadoo has been done on my hubby and the treatment for it....
Yaar he is the guy from Qtv, he helps with any sort of problem.
boredom, I am itching to give you a piece of my mind for giving people pathetic advice. But, I see this isn't the time nor place so will save it for later. May God guide you to the right path, ameen.
Lots of insensitive posts here. Someone is suffering and in the midst of a truly heartbreaking situation and some of you have the audacity to complain about how long it is?
Even better are those of you who are giving advice without reading the entire post.
If you can't help the poster, go to another thread. Debate something really original and worthy of your time. I'm sure there's a real scintillating discussion about love marriages versus arranged marriages that could really use your enlightened opinion.
Lets leave this topic for those of us who have the time, capacity and genuine concern for helping this unfortunate individual.
This post should be mandatory for every visitor to this thread. :)
^But girls usually have smaller brains. They always need help.
simple problem hai...since you initially said NO to him...he used other tricks to get closer to you and finally managed to make you his. now he is not interested because he got you and you are no more a challenge for him. i'm surprised you are still living with him. divorce his sorry ass and put your derailed life back on the right tracks. if you think you can make things right in this relationship then sorry to say that its not going to happen. because there is no relationship to begin with. its all on the paper and you cannot live with someone like him just bcos of a piece of paper. its right and high time for you to put more emphasis on your future and kick him out of your life.
this whole thing reminds me of Charlotte in Sex and the City gets married and for a very long time never actually was able to have relations with her husband either...very similar case like the this one.
n once she moves out they are able to, but still no kid :(
they end up getting divorce :(
just love that show. :D
^^ i knw that, but there was no magic involved in the show, but it was more of a mental thing.
what kind of magic u expect in a show like sex and the city? harry potter or bengal ka jadu?
this poster's thingie is also more mental than anything else. its mental torture he is making her go through and she is willingly going through it. on one can fight your battles for you. yeah ppl can give advice and suggestions...in the end gun is in your hands...whether you hit the target or miss...depends on your aim and determination. like i've said before...this is a meaningless relationship and she won't get anything out of it so might as well get out of it. thats the best she can get.
One of the purposes of a Life and relationships forum is to seek advice on any type of matter. This should be a forum where one feels comfortable to seek help for any problems they have, to share ups and downs.
But obviously some people here cannot fathom that thought and resort to petty put downs or complaints about the length. NO ONE is forcing you to read anything. There are plenty of other threads in this forum, there's a multitude of fourms to browse through. Have some basic respect for one another and leave certain topics for those who have the time and ability ot genuinely help someone.
hahhahahaha. hahahah.